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samwuxaro da damafiqrebeli faqtia agresiis gaxSirebuli SemTxvevebi – mozardebSi. moswavleebi civi iaraRiT, ZiriTadad, skolis Senobis gareT, quCaSi an bnel CixebSi upirispirdebian erTmaneTs. bevri SemTxveva fataluradac ki mTavrdeba
bolo drois yvelaze gaxmaurebuli faqti Tbilisis 53-e sajaro skolis moswavleebis civsisxliani dapirispirebaa. saqmis e.w. garCevam ori mozardis sicocxle imsxverpla. Znelia imis Tqma, vin ufro damnaSavea, mozardi, romelmac es danaSauli Caidina Tu mSobeli, vinc amJamad mas xels afarebs da sasamarTloze Cvenebis Secvlasa da megobrebis danaSaulis dafarvas aiZulebs. faqtia, rom dRes mozardebSi kvlavac popularuli gaxda e.w. kai biWebis instituti. Jurnalisturi gamokvlevis Semdeg, erTi daskvnis gakeTeba SemiZlia: mTavari mizezi mSoblebis mouclelobaa, ris gamoc bavSvebi mTeli dRe umeTvalyureod rCebian. mSoblebma ar ician sad arian maTi Svilebi, ras saqmianoben, visTan megobroben da Sedegic saxezea. samwuxarod, isini mTel pasuxismgeblobas skolas, pedagogebs akisreben, rac arasworia. sad aris gamosavali da ra unda gakeTdes situaciis gamosasworeblad, am etapze amis Tqma rTulia. situacia ki marTlac damafiqrebelia. ra roli aqvs mSobels da skolas bavSvis aRzrdaSi da sad aris gamosavali – am sakiTxebze Tavis mosazrebebs pedagogi, inkluziuri swavlebis fsiqologi lali jafariZe gviziarebs.
– qalbatoni lali, rogor SeafasebT arasrulwlovanebis gaxSirebul dapirispirebebs skolebSi?
– ar meguleba adamiani, vinc amis gamo ar iqneba aRSfoTebuli. am situaciaSi erTi romelime mxaris dadanaSauleba ar SeiZleba. bavSvi, ojaxi da skola erTi rgolia, romelic rac SeiZleba mWidrod unda iyos dakavSirebuli erTmaneTTan.
– raSi xedavT gamosavals?
– aucilebelia fsiqologebis meti CarTuloba skolebSi da, saWiroebis SemTxvevaSi, ojaxebSic. vfiqrob, kviraSi fsiqologiis ramdenime gakveTili unda tardebodes. samwuxaroa, magram skolebis umravlesobas an ar, an saCveneblad hyavs fsiqologi, romlebic mxolod maSin esaubrebian bavSvebs, rodesac ukve faqtis winaSe vdgebiT – danaSauli moxda. Cemi azriT, ganaTlebis saministrom aucileblad unda miiRos Sesabamisi zomebi da skolebSi daamatos fsiqologis Statebi. erTi-ori fsiqologi skolaSi sakmarisi araa. Tu saWiro gaxda, TiTo rTul bavSvTan erTi specialisti mainc unda muSaobdes, Tanac ara erTjeradad.
– unda gamkacrdes Tu ara kanoni arasrulwlovanebis mimarT da ra roli akisria skolaSi mandaturebs?
– cudi isaa, rom msgavs situaciebSi gvaxsendeba kanoni da bavSvebs mandaturiT da patruliT vaSinebT. bavSvma kargad unda icodes Tavisi uflebebi da kanonic yvelasTvis erTnairad unda kanonobdes. aucileblobis SemTxvevaSi, ra Tqma unda, saWiroa miviRoT saTanado zomebi, magram vimeoreb, manamde Zalian bevri unda imuSaos fsiqologma da mWidro kavSiri hqondes skolis mandaturebTan.
– wlebis win mandaturebs uflebebi SeuzRudes. rogor fiqrobT, amanac xom ar iqonia gavlena?
– ra Tqma unda, erT-erTi mizezi esecaa. moswavle kargad unda icnobdes mis uflebebs, kanonis darRvevis SemTxvevaSi ki mandaturi aucileblad unda Caerios da gamoiyenos mis xelT arsebuli yvela berketi. samwuxarod, mandaturi mxolod skolis SigniT perimetrs akontrolebs, danaSauli ki umetesad quCaSi xdeba, sadac mas uflebebi SezRuli aqvs.
– rogoria skolis, pedagogis da mSoblis roli? zogi mSobeli Tavad avlens agresias skolis da maswavleblis mimarT, riTac sakuTari Svilis provocirebas axdens da agresiisken ubiZgebs.
– dasawyisSi vTqvi, rom skola, ojaxi da bavSvi aris erTi rgoli. sanam skolaSi mova bavSvi, is jer ojaxSi, mSoblisgan swavlobs yvelafers, is aris SvilisTvis magaliTi. roca ojaxSi mozardis aRzrdaze ar zrunaven, Znelia mas mosTxovo is, rac ar uswavlia. geTanxmebiT, rom xSirad mSobeli Tavad gamoxatavs agresias pedagogis da skolis mimarT, riTac uneblieT, sakuTari Svilis agresiis provocirebas da waxalisebas axdens. aseve, aucilebelia, pedagogi skolaSi bavSvisTvis ara marto maswavlebeli, megobaric iyos. merwmuneT, yviriliT, CxubiT da erTmaneTis upativcemulobiT problemas ufro gavamwvavebT.
– bavSvebs dRes wignebis kiTxva aRar surT da upiratesobas socialur qsels aniWeben. aris Tu ara mSoblisa da pedagogis pasuxismgebloba am mimarTulebiT Tanabari da raSi xedavT gamosavals?
– bavSvebi wignebs rom aRar kiTxuloben da socialur qsels aniWeben upiratesobas, ojaxis bralia. dRes axaldabadebul bavSvebs dedebi sawolSi mobiluri telefoniT aCereben, ezarebaT bavSvis zedmetad xelSi ayvana da Tavis Sewuxeba (ra Tqma unda, yvelas ar vgulisxmob) da isic rasac xedavs, imas eCveva. mere cota rTulia maTi gadaCveva da mizezic es aris. aseT dedebs xSirad ukvirT, ratom arian maTi Svilebi Caketilebi, agresiulebi da gulgrilebi. mizezi, upirvelesad, yvelam sakuTar TavSi unda veZeboT.
– socialur qselebSi gavrcelebulma TamaSebmac xom iqonia gavlena mozardebis agresiaze?
– am mimarTulebiT namdvilad sagangaSo situaciaa. socialuri qselebidan modis es uazro TamaSebi, romlebic Wkua-gonebas umRvrevs bavSvebs da cud Sedegsac viRebT. swored amitom aucilebelia skolebSi pedagogebis da fsiqologebis erToblivi muSaoba, saintereso saRamoebis mowyoba da diskusiebi, wakiTxuli wignebis ganxilvebi da bevri saintereso RonisZiebis Catareba, romelic moswavleebisTvis saintereso iqneba da wignisadmi interess aRuZravs da, rac mTavaria, mSobelma unda akontrolos bavSvebis socialuri qselebi, dainteresdnen, riTi erTobian maTi Svilebi da akontrolon internetTan wvdomis xangrZlivobac.
– Tqven fiqrobT, rom amiT problema mogvardeba?
– danaSaulis 100%-iT aRmofxvras veranairi prevenciuli RonisZiebiT ver SevZlebT, magram erTi gzas acdenili bavSvis mobruneba, erTi gadarCenili sicocxle, vfiqrob, ukve Sedegia.
– da mainc, saidan unda daviwyoT muSaoba?
– cudia, Tu muSaoba aqamde ar gvaqvs dawyebuli. faqtia, rom dRes mSobels da maswavleblebs xSirad uWirT bavSvebTan saerTo enis gamonaxva, mSvidi, gulaxdili saubari. es ki ufro da ufro aSorebs maT erTmaneTTan. amitomacaa, rom sanam faqtis winaSe ar aRmovCndebiT, problemis Sesaxeb verafers vigebT. aucilebelia gavigoT, ram ganapiroba bavSvis cudi saqcieli da muSaoba iqidan daviwyoT, radgan swored am qcevis miRma imaleba motivi, ris gamoc bavSvi ase moiqca. Tu kiTxvebze, ra, rogor da ratom, ar miviRebT swor pasuxebs, ise prevenciaze saubari zedmetia. ucilebelia klasis damrigebels mainc hqondes fsiqologis treningi gavlili, specmaswavlebeli hyavdes yvela skolas. specmaswavleblebs statusi unda mianiWon, CarTon sqemaSi da miscen ganviTarebis SesaZlebloba. mxolod maTi yoveldRiuri, erToblivi muSaobiT, bavSvebTan siaxloviT, erTmaneTis gverdSi dgomiT mivaRwevT sasurvel Sedegs. mkafiod unda CamovayaliboT, ra Sedegis miReba gvsurs, davxarjoT Cveni resursebis didi nawili im saqmeze, romelic yvelaze metad gvaaxloebs dasaxul mizans – davicvaT Cveni Svilebi safrTxisgan.
