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26 wlis Tamari 9 wlidan Zaladobis msxverplia. gviyveba, rom masze ojaxis wevrebi Zaladobdnen. deda scemda, maminacvali da misi Svili ki masTan seqsualuri kavSiris damyarebas cdilobdnen. Tamars araerTxel ucdia, sicocxle TviTmkvlelobiT daesrulebina, magram, rogorc Tavad ambobs, gambedaoba ar eyo…
15 wlis gogona maminacvalma 12 wliT ufros, epilefsiiT daavadebul mamakacs miaTxova. sanacvlod fuli aiRo.
Tamarma verc gaTxovebis Semdeg daaRwia Tavi Zaladobas.
– 6 Tvis orsuli viyavi, rodesac meuRlem Cemze fizikurad iZalada. naadrevi mSobiaroba damewyo, eqimebma nayofis SenarCuneba ver SeZles. Semdeg ori Svili SemeZina. maT gamo vitandi Seuracxyofas da fizikur tkivils. arc saSualeba mqonda da arc gambedaoba, rom SvilebTan erTad saxlidan wavsuliyavi. moTmineba varCie. ufrosi Svili 5 wlis iyo, rodesac mamamTilma saxlidan gamomagdo. TavSesafari ar mqonda. Cemebma ar mimiRes, miTxres, Seni bralia, ojaxi rom dagengra da Tavadve moagvare problemao. faqtobrivad, quCaSi aRmovCndi. umaRlesi ganaTleba ar mqonda, Sesabamisad, verc muSaobas daviwyebdi. Svilebi CemTan erTad quCaSi rom ar darCeniliyvnen bedis anabara, iZulebuli gavxdi mamasTan dametovebina. dRes maTi naxvis uflebas ar maZleven. bavSvebi Cem winaaRmdeg ganawyves. uTxres, rom mivatove da sxva kacTan wavedi. Cemi danaxvac ki ar undaT, – gviambo Tamarma.
es erTi adamianis istoriaa, romelic ojaxuri Zaladobis msxverplia. msgavsi istoriebi TiTqmis yoveldRiurad gvesmis. bunebrivia, Cndeba kiTxvac, ra aris Zaladoba da ratom uCndeba erTs meoris daCagvris survili?
Zaladoba sityvasityviT rom ganvmartoT, aris Zalis aSkara an faruli gamoyenebiT adamianis iZuleba, gaakeTos is, rac misi nebis sawinaaRmdegoa. es SeiZleba iyos nebismieri qmedeba, maT Soris fizikuri an sityvieri, romelsac SeuZlia adamiani Seuracxyos, ziani moutanos mas an Seulaxos kanoniT miniWebuli uflebebi. Zaladoba Sedgeba sami komponentisgan: msxverpli, damnaSave da TviT qmedeba.
Zaladobis yvelaze farTod gavrcelebuli formaa Zaladoba – ojaxSi. igi SeiZleba gamoixatos fizikur, seqsualur da emociur ZaladobaSi, muqaraSi, sazogadoebisgan izolaciaSi, raime qmedebis muqariT akrZalvaSi, daSinebaSi da a.S.
gaeros qalTa organizaciis monacemebiT, msoflioSi ojaxSi Zaladobis msxverplTa 95 procenti qalia.
qalTa mimarT ojaxSi Zaladobis Sesaxeb Catarebuli erovnuli kvlevis Tanaxmad, gamokiTxuli 2 400-mde qalidan, romelTa asakic 15-49 wlamde meryeobda, qorwinebaSi myofi yoveli meTerTmete fizikuri Zaladobis msxverplia. ojaxSi, sadac Zaladoba sistematuri xasiaTisaa, maRalia riski, rom moZaladis buneba mozardsac Camouyalibdes. bavSvebis Tvalwin mudmivi konfliqtebi maT sxva fsiqologiuri problemebis riskis winaSe ayenebs. arasrulwlovnebi xSirad midian TviTmkvlelobamdec ki.
fsiqolog qeTevan beriZis ganmartebiT, 6 wlamde asaki bavSvebisaTvis yvelaze gadamwyveti periodia, amitom Zalian didi mniSvneloba aqvs, bavSvi icxovrebs funqciur Tu disfunqciur ojaxSi. xSiria SemTxveva, roca bavSvi izrdeba funqciur ojaxSi (mSoblebTan erTad), magram mSoblebs aqvT gamudmebuli konfliqti, ris Sedegadac bavSvic moZaladed yalibdeba da SeiZleba seriozuli fsiqikuri problemebic Seeqmnas.
miuxedavad imisa, Zaladobas vgmobT da TiTqmis yoveldRiurad vmsjelobT gamosavalze, konkretuli SemTxvevebisas mainc Tvals vxuWavT momxdarze. argumentic gvaqvs: `es Cveni saqme ar aris~ an `ojaxur problemas Tavad moagvareben~. arada, realurad swored sazogadoebis gulgrili damokidebulebaa yvelaze didi problema. Tuki sazogadoeba metad aimaRlebs xmas Zaladobis winaaRmdeg da adamianebi viqnebiT solidarulebi erTmaneTis mimarT, vfiqrob, kanonic ufro gamkacrdeba, amoqmeddeba gacilebiT efeqturi sakanonmdeblo da sadamsjelo berketi, rac Tavis mxriv, ubiZgebs moZalades, iyos metad TavSekavebuli.
advokat zaza papiZis ganmartebiT, moZaladis mimarT SeiZleba Semakavebeli orderi gaices, ris safuZvelzec mas akrZaluli eqneba Zaladobis msxverplTan miaxloeba, telefonze darekva da yovelgvari fizikuri kontaqti. Tumca, Semakavebeli orderi ar aris 100 procentiT efeqturi da ar aris gamoricxuli, rom moZaladem orderis gacemis Semdgomac ganagrZos Zaladoba. amis Semdeg samarTaldamcavebi ufro mkacr RonisZiebebs atareben da dgeba moZaladis pasuxisgebaSi micemis sakiTxi.
aris kidev erTi mniSvnelovani faqtori. xSirad xdeba ise, rom Tuki Zaladobis msxverpli midis moZaladisgan an amxels mas, sazogadoebis nawili msxverpls akritikebs. ismis Sefasebebi, rom dedas ojaxi ar unda daengria da a.S. yvelam unda gaiTavisos, rom aravin imsaxurebs iyos msxverpli da TiTouli arasrulwlovani Tu srulwlovani moqalaqis ufleba aris uzenaesi. problemis srulad aRmofxvras Tu ver SevZlebT, Zaladobis faqtebis Sesamcireblad xmamaRla saubars aucileblad mohyveba Sedegi.
– moZalade yovelTvis miiCnevs, rom Zaladoba misi cxovrebis wesia da amdenad, sworad iqceva. xSirad moZalades SeiZleba hqondes fsiqikuri problemebi, an miaCndes, rom misi aseTi qceva kulturiT aris gamowveuli da srulebiT normaluria. aqedan gamomdinare, ar arsebobs moZalade, romelic Tavis saqciels nanobs. Zaladobis msxverpl adamianebs yovelTvis aqvT sazogadoebis SiSi. samwuxarod, es tendencia dRemde iseTive problemad rCeba, rogorc adre iyo. xSiria SemTxvevebi, rodesac Zaladobis msxverpli Zaladobis faqtebs ver aRiarebs. moZalade SemTxveviT ar arCevs msxverpls, is zustad arCevs Tavisive fsiqotips, anu, moZalade da Zaladobis msxverpli erTnairebi arian pirovnuli TvisebebiT, kulturuli TaviseburebebiT. xSir SemTxvevaSi, amis Sedegad, msxverpli verc ki acnobierebs, rom masze Zaladoben, – gviTxra qeTevan beriZem. fsiqologma CvenTan saubrisas erT-erTi SemTxveva gaixsena – orsul qalbatons sastikad gausworda meuRle, Tumca, roca mas uTxra, rom is Zaladobis msxverpli iyo, gaukvirda.
– xSirad adamiani ver acnobierebs, rom msxverplia, amitom mas es unda avuxsnaT. ojaxuri Zaladobis SemTxvevaSi, moZalade, pirvel rigSi, msxverpls gare samyarosTan, megobrebTan, axloblebTan urTierTobas da kavSirs uzRudavs, radgan misTvis es ar aris xelsayreli. moZalade maqsimalurad cdilobs, msxverpli damorCilebuli hyavdes. ojaxuri Zaladobis kidev erTi forma arsebobs – ekonomikuri Zaladoba, romelic gulisxmobs finansur damokidebulebas moZaladeze. am SemTxvevaSi moZalade ar aZlevs saSualebas meuRles hqondes sakuTari saqme da samsaxuri, – ambobs qalbatoni qeTevani.
fsiqologma isic gviTxra, rom arsebobs specialuri servisi, romelic ufasod emsaxureba riskis mqone, Zaladobagamovlil ojaxebs da Zaladobis msxverpl bavSvebs.
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