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termini `bulingi~ Cagvras, fizikur an fsiqologiur terors niSnavs, romelic winaswarganzraxviT bavSvis mimarT TanaklaselTa an sxva bavSvebis jgufis mier xorcieldeba. is, vinc bulings mimarTavs, miznad msxverplis daSinebasa da damorCilebas isaxavs
skolebSi moswavleebi xSirad ganicdian fizikur da fsiqologiur terors Tanaklaselebis mxridan. es movlena gvxvdeba rogorc gogonebSi, aseve vaJebSi. ufro xSirad bulingis msxverpli umcrosklaselebi arian.
ZiriTadad, bulingi oTx tipad iyofa:
fizikuri bulingi – yvelaze Zaladobrivi forma, romelic gulisxmobs fizikuri zianis miyenebas an miyenebis mcdelobas. misi formebia: Cxubi, Tmis moqaCva, piradi nivTebis ganzrax dazianeba da sxva. faruli bulingi – moraluri da emociuri Zaladoba, romelic piradad ar aris mimarTuli obieqtisadmi da gamoixateba tyuilebSi, Worebis gavrcelebaSi, sxva moswavleebTan damcirebaSi. . . yvelaze gavrcelebuli formaa verbaluri bulingi, rac gamoixateba damcirebisa da Zaladobis verbalur xasiaTSi. magaliTad, dacinva, Seuracxyofa, Rirsebis Selaxva, daSineba.
kiberbulingi – gansxvavdeba yvela danarCenisgan, radgan is seqsualur miznebs ukavSirdeba, Tumca SesaZloa moicavdes damamcirebeli saxelebis Serqmevas da SantaJis seriozul safrTxeebs.
bulingi aqtualuri problemaa rogorc mTels msoflioSi, aseve, saqarTveloSi. mozard TanatolTa Soris Zaladobis Sedegad fatalur Sedegebs viRebT. xSir SemTxvevaSi bavSvis swori ganviTareba wydeba da mas didi fsiqologiuri problemebi eqmneba.
am problemaze, misi gadaWris gzebze vesaubreT rogorc maswavleblebs, aseve moswavleebsa da fsiqologebs.
Teona xomeriki, maswavlebeli:
– sityva bulingi ucxouri warmoSobisaa, Tumca misi Sesatyvisi qarTulSi gvaqvs – Cagvra. cxovrebaSi xSirad vxvdebiT Cagvris magaliTebs da sakmaod rTulia masTan gamklaveba. bulingis msxverpli SeiZleba iyos rogorc patara bavSvi, aseve zrdasruli adamiani. ase rom, Cven ver vityviT, zustad ra aris amis gamomwvevi mizezebi, ram SeiZleba ganapirobos Cveni dabulingeba. skolaSi bulingi SeiZleba daemuqros rogorc cudi akademiuri moswrebis moswavles, aseve, piriqiT, friadosansac. amitom es aris Zalian rTuli da kompleqsuri fenomeni. vfiqrob, pirvel rigSi, maswavleblebi ar unda ganeridon msgavs situacias, unda dainaxon, ra xdeba maT irgvliv. pirdapir saubars zogjer iribad Tqma sjobia, Tumca ise, rom konkretuli Sedegi gamoiRos. maswavleblebs aqvT amisTvis erT-erTi berketi – klas-saaTi, roca klasis damrigebels an Tundac, sagnis maswavlebels, SeuZlia sakuTari survilisamebr gamoiyenos erTi konkretuli saaTi da esaubros moswavleebs yvela mniSvnelovan sakiTxze, Tumca gamosavali mainc cnobierebis amaRlebaa.
mzia kvinikaZe, maswavlebeli.
– bulingi erT-erTi mwvave problemaa saqarTveloSi. es aris erTgvari Cagvra, romelic mwvave fizikur da fsiqologiur tramvas iwvevs mozardSi. maswavleblis roli didia am problemasTan brZolaSi. man unda dagegmos klasgareSe Tematika, romelic warmoaCens am Temas, moswavleebs miawodos informacia, gamarTos diskusia klasSi kargi da cudi qcevebis gasamijnad, isaubros Riad pirad gamocdilebaze, moawyos konferencia da bavSvebs daavalos am sakiTxis gaSla, aseve, saqmeSi CarTos mSoblebi da hqondes maTTan kontaqti. Tema Zalian sensitiuria da amitom mwvaved xazgasmac ar iqneba kargi. magaliTebiT unda warmovaCinoT, bulingi cudia da unda vebrZoloT mas! vfiqrob, Tu yvela maswavlebeli izrunebs amaze, aucileblad Semcirdeba Cagvris SemTxvevebis raodenoba da aRmoifxvreba kidec. Cven bevri magaliTi gvaqvs imisa, Tu ra Sedegebi mohyva bulings, amitom yvelam erTad unda gavufrTxildeT TiToeul moswavles da maT sicocxles. moswavleebi am problemur sakiTxs araerTgvarovnad afaseben. zogi ambobs, rom Zalian xSirad moswavleebi maswavleblebis mxridanac xdebian bulingis msxverplni, iqneba es sityvieri Tu fizikuri qmedeba, romelsac permanentuli xasiaTic aqvs. amis Semdeg moswavle, romelic maswavleblis mxridan bulingis msxverplia, avtomaturad xdeba Tanatolebis Cagvris obieqti. aseT SemTxvevaSi maT ararealurad miaCniaT, problemis warmoqmnisas mimarTon msgavs pedagogs daxmarebisTvis. moswavleebi am sakiTxis gamZafrebas ukavSireben skolaSi momuSave personalis arasaTanado komunikacias mozardebTan.
momavalSi ra safrTxeebis Semcvelia bavSvobaSi gadatanili travma? am kiTxvaze is axalgazrdebi gvpasuxoben, romlebic fsiqologiis specialobas euflebian. maTi azris SejerebiT, rom bulingi mniSvnelovan uaryofiT zegavlenas axdens rogorc moZaladeze aseve Zaladobis msxverplsa da Zaladobis damkvirvebelze. bulingis msxverpl bavSvebs mozrdilobisas aqvT daucvelobis gancda, SfoTva, SiSebi, dabali TviTSefaseba, arCeven ma-rtoobas, izolirebas gare samyarosgan, midrekilni arian depresiisadmi. yofila SemTxveva, roca fataluradac dasrulebula yvelaferi, radgan xSir SemTxvevaSi maT Zala ar yofniT gaumklavdnen miRebul stress, miT ufro, Tu isini brZolaSi martoni iyvnen.
rCevebi mSoblebisTvis, romelic sam ZiriTad aspeqts moicavs.
mosmena: aucilebelia mSoblebma yuradRebiT moisminon Svilebis ambebi, Tumca ise, rom ar Seawyvetinon saubari. unda iyvnen TanamgrZnobni da aucileblad SeinarCunon simSvide.
saubari: umniSvnelovanesia bavSvebTan saubari da xSiri komunikacia. unda esaubroT imis Sesaxeb, Tu ra moxda, Tumca zedmeti emociebis gareSe. ar unda gamoxaton mSoblebma aRSfoTeba, gaRizianeba, radgan aman SeiZleba gamoiwvios bavSvSi negatiuri ukukavSiri da Seaferxos sxva dros masTan saubari. Aucilebelia jansaRi saubari realuri Sefasebebis fonze. unda gairkves, sad, rodis da rogor moxda bulingis SemTxveva, vin iyo CarTuli masSi, ramdenad xSirad xdeba es qmedeba.
skolasTan dakavSireba: aucilebelicaa aseT dros bavSvis maswavlebelTan an direqtorTan gasaubreba. unda gairkves, icis Tu ara skolis xelmZRvanelobam Cagvris faqtebis Sesaxeb. unda Semowmdes, rogor politikas atarebs skola, rogor aRmoifxvreba Zaladobis SemTxvevebi.
unda ganixilebodes bulingis yvela SemTxveva. maswavlebelma ar unda daadanaSaulos konkretuli bavSvi, unda ipovos gamosavali, romelic daexmareba rogorc msxverpls, ise agresors. ar unda daisvas zedmeti kiTxvebi, rogoricaa `ratom~, `rogor~, `risTvis~. yvelaze mniSvnelovania, maswavleblebma moswavleebs aswavlon konfliqtebis mSvidobiani gadaWris gzebi.
ra aqcevs bavSvs moZaladed ?
Zaladobrivi qcevis gamomwvevi faqtorebidan, yvelaze aqtualuria bavSvis arajansaRi socialuri garemo, moZalade mSoblebi an naTesavebi. Zaladobis Semcveli filmebic da videoTamaSebic am mxriv Tavis rols TamaSobs, Tumca mizezi mainc problemis kompleqsurobaSi unda veZeboT.
pirvel rigSi, yvelaze mniSvnelovania mSoblebma gaaanalizon, rom es arc xumrobaa da arc TamaSi da am sakiTxs yuradRebiT da sifrTxiliT unda miudgnen. maswavleblebma ara marto unda aswavlon, aramed adamianebad unda aRzardon TiToeuli moswavle, Camouyalibon maT pirovnuli Tvisebebi. mTavaria, SevuqmnaT mozardebs jansaRi garemo, sadac ar ganicdian Cagvras.
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