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afxazeTSi daibada, Semdeg iyo urTulesi periodebi, ramdenime welia baTumSi gadmovida sacxovreblad da Tvlis, rom es is qalaqia, sadac yvelaze metad daikmayofila afxazeTTan siaxlovis wyurvili. xSirad, roca nostalgia Semoawveba, gadis zRvis sanapiroze da iZireba mogonebebSi afxazeTze. bavSvobaSi mocekvaveoba undoda, Tumca mogvianebiT mixvda, rom iseTi sakiTxebi ainteresebda, rac axlos iyo fsiqologiasTan, filosofiasTan. marTlac, profesiad fsiqologoba airCia. Tvlis, rom fsiqologia yvelaze martivi da gasa-gebi ganmartebiT, es aris garkveuli codna, mecniereba sulis Sesaxeb.
gazeT `aWaris~ stumari fsiqologi, fsiqoTerapevti zurab qarCavaa.
– fsiqologiaSi Zalian bevri mimdinareoba arsebobs, zogierTi azrovnebis fsiqologiiTaa dakavebuli, zogi emociebis da qcevis fsiqologiiT da a. S. aseve, arsebobs sxvadasxva fsiqoTerapiuli mimdinareoba, romelsac Tavisi principuli, garkveuli modeli gaaCnia. imisTvis, rom fsiqologma da fsiqoTerapevtma moipovos ndoba, garkveuli konfidencialobis eTika unda daicvas. araerTi niuansia gasaTvaliswinebeli, magram, pirvel rigSi, umTavresi principi aris – ar avno. Zalian mniSvnelovania, roca adamiani modis SenTan da gesaubreba Zalian siRrmiseul, intimur sakiTxebze, daicva eTikis kodeqsi, Tumca, samwuxarod, Cvens qveyanaSi xSirad ugulebelyofen am wesebs. swored amitom Cndeba bunebrivi SiSi sazogadoebaSi fsiqologebisa da fsiqoTerapevtebisadmi. Zalian bevri arajansaR damokidebulebebs avlens klientTan mimarTebaSi. kidev erTxel gavimeoreb – ar avno, aris yvelaze mniSvnelovani Cvens profesiaSi, – ambobs fsiqologi. misive ganmartebiT, Tanabari pasuxismgebloba aqvT rogorc fsiqologs, ise masTan daxmarebisTvis misul adamians. marTalia, klientis saWiroebisamebr mimdinareobs urTierToba, `musikis SemkveTic~ garkveulwilad, klientia, Tumca `diriJoroba~ mainc fsiqikuri janmrTelobis specialistis prerogativaa.
– adamiani SenTan rom modis, is ukve mzad aris, man nabiji gadmodga. SeiZleba ar icis, ra aris fsiqoTerapia, sad movida, vin xar saerTod, Tumca unda auxsna da sworad gaagebino yvelaferi. xSirad fsiqologi jini hgoniaT, romelic boTlidan amoZvreba da mTeli cxovrebis ganmavlobaSi dagrovebul uaryofiT energetikas erTi xelis mosmiT, erT dReSi gaaqrobs. ara, ra Tqma unda, es ararealuria. Cveni profesia, rogorc sxvebis, Zalian bevr muSaobas da Zalisxmevas moiTxovs, rom yvelaferi iyos ise, rogorc saWiroa, – aRniSnavs zurab qarCava.
fsiqologis informaciiT, yvelaze xSirad mas SfoTviTi aSlilobebiT mimarTaven, meore adgilzea depresia, rac, misive ganmartebiT, dakavSirebulia pirovnuli unarebisa da garesamyaroSi arsebuli garkveuli interaqciis Sedegad aRreul ritmTan.
– Zalian didi survilia adamianSi iyos kargad, bednierad, Tumca es ar aris martivi. arsebobs Zalian bevri gare faqtorebi, romlebic moqmedebs adamianebze – samsaxuri, piradi cxovreba, finansuri sakiTxebi. finansuri keTildReoba uZlieresi faqtoria dRes. adamianebi muSaoben imisaTvis, rom iarsebon da ara – sakuTari siamovnebisTvis, rac iwvevs SfoTvas, TviTSefasebis daqveiTebas, emociebis regulaciis da qcevis marTvis problemebs, agresias, maT Soris emociur da fsiqologiur agresias, daTrgunulobas, sevdas da a. S. ra Tqma unda, reaqciebi individualuria, viRac gamoxatavs Tavis dards, viRac sakuTar Tavs vnebs. aseT dros ar arsebobs raime konkretuli rCeva, Tan Zalian ar miyvars rCevebi, ukidures SemTxvevaSi viyeneb xolme, isic ara pirdapir, aramed ufro SefarviT, rekomendaciis saxiT. pirvel rigSi, yovelTvis unda gvaxsovdes, rom gamosavali arsebobs. Zalian mZime pirovnul gamocdilebasTan mqonia Sexeba, umZimesi istoriebi momismenia, iseTi, rom movyve, SeiZleba adamianebma marto mosmeniT miiRon travma, Tumca minaxavs cvlilebebi am adamianebisa – pasuxismgeblobebis aReba da yvelaze mniSvnelovanis – siyvarulis da bednierebis, da rac yvelaze mTavaria, TviTrealizaciis moTxovnileba. arian adamianebi, romlebic amboben, rom ar ician, rogor Secvalon raRac, magram es ar niSnavs, rom Tu ar ici, ar arsebobs gamosavali. patara cvlilebiT iwyeba didi cvlileba, elementaruli cvlilebiT. dabrkoleba yovelTvis iarsebebs, magram unda gavagrZeloT moZraoba, – ambobs Cveni respondenti.
fsiqologma siyvarulis Zalazec isaubra da aRniSna, rom swored es aZlevs adamianebs stimuls, gaxdnen imaze ukeTesebi, vidre iyvnen manamde. misive TqmiT, yovelTvis subieqturia siyvarulis aRqma.
– Sinagani damokidebulebiT da sakuTari Tavis mimReblobiT iwyeba mTeli samyaro. Tu Tavi ar giyvars da yovelTvis sxvisgan iTxov siyvaruls, mona xar Seni moTxovnilebis, gamodis, rom realurad arc aravin giyvars. yvelas Taviseburi Teoria aqvs, Tumca rogorc Zala – udidesia, aqvs gansakuTrebuli SemoqmedebiTi potenciali, – miaCnia zurab qarCavas, romelsac, rogorc gviTxra, fsiqologebze araerTi miTi mousmenia, maT Soris: fsiqologebi giJebis eqimebi arian, fsiqologebma yvelaferi ician, isini azrebs kiTxuloben… Tumca Tvlis, rom profesional fsiqologs marTla SeuZlia gamoicnos adamianis survilebi, miswrafebebi da daayenos im gzaze, romliTac is daaRwevs yvela problemas Tavs, daubrundeba im mdgomareobas, ra mdgomareobaSic SeeZlo efiqra ukeTes xvalindel dReze.
– ramdeni adamianic aris, imdeni istoriaa, ramdeni istoriac aris, imdeni simptomia da ramdeni simptomicaa, imdeni gza arsebobs gamosavlis. aqedan gamomdinare, yvela adamiani unikaluria Taviseburad da Tavisebur midgomebs saWiroebs, – ambobs igi.
respondents vTxoveT, Tavis wil baTumzec eTqva ramdenime sityva CvenTvis, im baTumze, sadac wlebia cxovrobs da mSobliuriviT Seiyvara.
– Tamamad SemiZlia vTqva, rom baTumeli var, – gviTxra zurab qarCavam, – marTla Zalian simptomurad vicnob am qalaqs, Zalian xSirad var xan axalgazrdebis wreSi, xan – klubSi, xan – profesorebSi, mxatvrebSi, poetebSi… yvelas Taviseburi aRqma aqvs baTumis, Taviseburi tkivili, Taviseburad esmis am qalaqis sunTqva. yvelaferze dakvirveba Zalian saintereso procesia CemTvis. Camovedi Tu ara baTumSi, pirvelad zRvaze gavedi, Tvalwin damidga Cemi yvelaze mniSvnelovani da albaT, yvela adamianisTvis mniSvnel-ovani – bavSvoba. swored im wamidan vigrZeni, rom igi Cemi mSobliuri qalaqi gaxda. ufro zamTris baTumi miyvars, myudro da saocrad mSvidi. es is qalaqia, sadac SegiZlia giyvardes usazRvrod da iyo bednieri. datkbiT misi yoveldRiurobiT, mTiT, bariT, adamianebiT. baTumi, aq cxovreba sulis Terapiaa CemTvis. gamodiT gareT, iareT fexiT, SeigrZeniT qalaqis sunTqva da damerwmuneT, xangrZlivi droiT arasdros SegawuxebT depresia, cudi xasiaTi. baTumi aris mravalferovneba da Sen misi nawili xar.
