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Zvel wignebsa da filmebSi araerTxel wagvikiTxavs Tu gvinaxavs, rogor zrdidnen ZiZebi Taobebs aristokratul ojaxebSi. dRes ZiZis aucileblobas mxolod fufuneba da Zlieri ojaxi ar ganapirobebs. qali mxolod diasaxlisi rom aRaraa, cnobili ambavia, amitom mcirewlovani Svilebis aRzrdaSi daxmareba dRiTi dRe sul ufro mets sWirdeba. am mizeziT Cvens realobaSi Camoyalibebuli ZiZis instituti bevrs daexmara, rom mxolod dedad da meuRled ar darCeniliyo.
Svili, mogexsenebaT, is fenomenia, romlisTvisac dedas yvelaferi yovelTvis gamorCeulad kargi unda. amitomac Zalian safrTxiloa ZiZis SerCeva. Znelia, sakuTari Svili ucxo adamians ando. arian mSoblebi, romlebsac mxolod imitom ahyavT ZiZa, rom naklebad daitvirTon bavSviT. es kargad Cans Cvens interviuerTan saubridanac, romelmac umuSevrobas ZiZad muSaoba amjobina. rogorc qalbatoni elene (konfidencialurobis gamo gvars ar vasaxelebT) ambobs, rTuli ojaxi Sexvda da mas Semdeg ZiZad aRar umuSavia.
– raRac mizezebis gamo umuSevari davrCi. Svilebis ganaTlebisTvis saxsrebi aucileblad mWirdeboda. vinaidan Cemi profesiiT (biologi var) samsaxuri ver viSove, gadavwyvite, ZiZad memuSava. Cemma mezobelma SemTxveviT gaigo, rom misi axloblis ojaxs ZiZa sWirdeboda 2 wlis bavSvisTvis, vifiqre, vcdi beds, Tu SevewyveT erTmaneTs, xom kargi-meTqi. Zalian sapasuxismgeblo saqmea ZiZoba, araferi unda SegeSalos. raRac uxerxul momentSi rom movides mSobeli da naxos, mis Svils Tundac piri aqvs mosawmendi, SeniSvnas mogcems da ver daajereb, rom erTi wuTis win daisvara. mivedi rogorc ZiZa, magram sakuTari nebiT, sxva saqmeebsac vakeTebdi. diliT dalagebas ver aswrebdnen. miyril-moyrili rom gxvdeba yvelaferi, Soridan xom ver dauwyeb yurebas. sxva rom araferi, axloblis ojaxSi vmuSaobdi. 2 wlis bavSvi ukve ise iyo mSoblebisgan gaTamamebuli, verafers Seasmendi. deda, 25 wlis gogo, arc swavlobda da arc muSaobda, an rad undoda muSaoba, biznesmenis coli gaxldaT, araferi aklda. Cemamde sxva ZiZa hyoliaT, romelic pataras ori kviris asakidan uvlida, magram mere raRac daavadeba gasCenia da axalic amitom dasWirdaT. mikvirda, neta, saerTod, raSi sWirdeba ZiZa-meTqi, magram mere mivxvdi yvelafers. ar vici, RamiT romel saaaTze iZinebdnen, magram dilis 9 saaTze ukve maTTan viyavi da bavSvi tiriliT daqanculi, gamoucvleli da mSieri mxvdeboda. bunebrivia, Cems saqmes vasrulebdi – vaWmevdi, vucvlidi, vawesrigebdi pataras. deda 12 saaTze ise adgeboda, dalevda yavas da wasasvlelad moemzadeboda, erTs ar ikiTxavda bavSvis ambavs, moferebaze laparaki zedmetia. mokled, bevri rom ar gavagrZelo, me da bavSvis deda, faqtobrivad, sul raRac naxevari saaTi vkontaqtobdiT. iRviZebda Tu ara, gadioda, saRamos ki bavSvs daZinebuls vtovebdi. isic Cem wasvlamde naxevari saaTiT adre brundeboda da amazec wuwunebda, Ramis ZiZac unda daviqiraoo… arada, bavSvi Rame ar iRviZebda, dilamde mSvidad eZina. SeiZleba iTqvas, misi pirmSo mTlianad me momabara. . . amasobaSi 2 weli gavida, bavSvi gaizarda, dedasTan urTierTobis moTxovnileba uCndeboda, ramdenjer atirebuls dauZinia, dedas iTxovda. bunebrivia, vurekavdi mokrZalebiT, rom iqneb mosuliyo, magram xandaxan telefonsac ki gviTiSavda, kinoTeatrSi jdoma da kafeSi yavis daleva erCivna SvilTan yofnas, im SvilTan, romelsac misgan siTbos meti araferi sWirdeboda. rac gasakeTebeli iyo, me vukeTebdi, dedisgan mxolod mofereba undoda, am axalgazrda gogos ki 1 saaTis gatareba ar undoda SvilTan. bavSvi saskolo asakis rom gaxda, iseTi skola ipoves, sadac 7 saaTamde tovebdnen, Semdeg ki mamas gamohyavda. amitom me aRar viyavi saWiro, mxolod moaxlis funqciebis Sesruleba ki ar mindoda. wamovedi da damxmared sxva aiyvanes, – gviTxra qalbatonma elenem.
ramdenad saWiroa ZiZis ayvana ojaxisTvis, rogor xdeba maTi SerCeva da ra gavlenas axdens saboloo jamSi ZiZa axalSobilze, amasTan dakavSirebiT fsiqologi salome doliZe gvesaubreba.
– ZiZa unda iyos axalgazrdac da gamocdilic, amasTan, fizikuri monacemebic xels uwyobdes. Tu adamiani am moTxovnebs akmayofilebs da sxvisi Svilis aRzrdac ar ezareba, dRes `prestiJuli~ samuSaos Sovnac ar gauWirdeba. Tu bavSvs ZiZa zrdis, amaSi cudi araferia, radgan mas mravlobiTi mijaWvulobis formirebis unari aqvs, Zalian bevr adamianTan uyalibdeba pozitiuri damokidebuleba, magram mniSvnelovania, rom mSobels bavSvTan Tbili damokidebuleba hqondes, yuradRebiani da mzrunveli iyos. Tu deda midis samsaxurSi da bavSvs saerTod ver xedavs, am SemTxvevaSi uaryofiT Sedegebs miviRebT. Tu mSobeli bavSvisTvis dros gamonaxavs, Tu ZiZac da dedac kargad eqcevian, problemac aRar Seiqmneba… da mainc, sasurvelia, rom 2 wlamde Svili dedam gazardos. SesaZloa, bavSvs araferi uWirdes, kargad TamaSobdes ZiZasTan, megobarTan, mezobelTan, bebiasTan, babuasTan, magram rogorc ki problema Seeqmneba, raRac astkivdeba, mas daculobis grZnoba unda hqondes dedisgan, adamianisgan, romlis imedic aqvs. sasurvelia, masze deda zrunavdes da Tu es ase ar aris, maSin ZiZa unda iyos mzrunveli da yuradRebiani. problema iqmneba maSin, rodesac bavSvis mimarT damokidebuleba, zrunva araadekvaturia. es SeiZleba mimdinareobdes rogorc ZiZisgan, aseve dedisganac. bavSvis dedasTan yofna ar niSnavs, rom saqme kargad aris. mniSvnelovania, rogor pasuxobs is bavSvisgan wamosul impulsebs da saWiroebebs – adekvaturad Tu araadekvaturad, droulad Tu aradroulad. Tu bavSvi tiris da deda an ZiZa ar aqcevs yuradRebas, sanam ar gadafiCindeba, es imas niSnavs, rom garemosTan arasando urTierToba uyalibdeba. bavSvi ambobs – me miWirs da yuradRebas ar maqceven, ese igi amaTi ndoba ar SeiZleba. gaizrdeba da eWviani iqneba. amas deda gaakeTebs Tu ZiZa, principuli mniSvneloba ar aqvs.
– ra SemTxvevaSia aucilebeli ZiZis ayvana?
– sworad axseneT sityva `aucilebloba~. vfiqrob, im SemTxvevaSi unda aviyvanoT ZiZa, roca amis aucilebloba dgeba, roca dedisTvis fizikurad rTuli xdeba am situaciis daZleva, miT umetes, Tu Svilebis raodenoba izrdeba. dRevandel viTarebaSi rTulia yvelafers erTad moaba Tavi.
fsiqologi mSoblebs urCevs, SearCion ZiZa, romelmac icis bavSvis fsiqologia. amasTan, aRniSnavs, rom bavSvs dedis da ZiZis aRqma ar uWirs. Cvili dedas dabadebisTanave cnobs. misive TqmiT, mzrunveloba da siTbo zedmeti arasodes aris, piriqiT, Tu bavSvi ar grZnobs yuradRebas, mas SesaZloa, arasando mijaWvuloba Camouyalibdes.
– bevri siTbo cudi ar aris, magram Tu bavSvis magivrad problemebs wyvetT, ar aZlevT damoukideblobis saSualebas, es uaryofiTad aisaxeba. arasando mijaWvuloba imas hqvia, bavSvi rom ar endoba da ar icis, rodis mova mis daZaxebaze deda an ZiZa. Tu bavSvi dedazea mijaWvuli, mas aqvs SiSi, rom deda wava. man ar icis, deda ras izams – xan modis, xan ar modis, amitom xdeba mijaWvuli. igive SeiZleba moxdes ZiZis SemTxvevaSic. mTavari ar unda dagvaviwydes – ZiZis yoliT, deda kargavs SvilTan urTierTobis bednier wuTebs, am dros ki, cxadia, verasdros davibrunebT. amitom, umjobesia, yvela saqme gadavdoT sul cota xniT mainc da am cxovrebaSi CvenTvis yvelaze Zvirfass davuTmoT didi dro!
