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`me fulis gamo ar momiklavs Tavi! Tavi avadmyofobis gamo movikali. ramdenime welia ase vitanjebi da Tavs ver vanebeb~, `pirvel rigSi, yvelasTan bodiSi, ojaxTan da megobrebTan, akrZaleT kazinoebi!~ – es im axalgazrdebis socialur qselSi gamoqveynebuli werilebia, romlebmac savaraudod azartuli TamaSebis gamo mimarTes suicids
statistikur monacemebs Tu gadavxedavT, ludomaniiT Sepyrobili adamianebis ricxvi samwuxarod, wlidan-wlamde izrdeba, maTi asaki ki 20-dan 60 wlamdea. TamaSdamokidebulebi xSirad finansuri problemebisgan Tavis daRwevis erTaderT saSualebad TviTmkvlelobas miiCneven, rasac, ra Tqma unda, sakiTxisadmi maTi da zogadad, sazogadoebis araswori midgoma ganapirobebs. aucilebelia xelisuflebam saTamaSo bizness, gansakuTrebiT ki onlain kazinoebs dauwesos regulaciebi da droulad moiyvanos sisruleSi kanonproeqti aRniSnulTan dakavSirebiT. Tumca, aseve samwuxarod, sanam xelisufleba qmediTi nabijebis gadadgmas aWianurebs, vxedavT, rogor xsnis saTamaSo biznesis brunva rekordebs. statistikas Tu daveyrdnobiT, mxolod gasul erT weliwadSi saTamaSo biznesis brunvis maCvenebeli 5,06 miliardi laridan, 13,8 miliard laramde gaizarda, Sesabamisad, `momgebian biznesze~ regulaciebis ardaweseba, savaraudod, viRacis wisqvilze asxams wyals. saidan iRebs saTaves TamaSdamokidebulebis istoria da ra gzebi arsebobs misgan Tavis dasaRwevad, amaze fsiqologi, fsiqoTerapevti zurab qarCava gvesaubra:
– TamaSdamokidebulebas Zalian xangrZlivi istoria aqvs. igi yovelTvis iyo aqtualuri Tema. arsebobda sxvadasxva TamaSi, maT Soris, garkveuli finansuri sargeblis momtanic. saqarTveloSi, garkveuli periodi, Zalian gavrceleuli iyo qorwilebis, Sekrebebis win nardis, kartis TamaSi, miiCnevdnen, rom amiT `dros klavdnen~. ufro aRmosavleTidan modis es yvelaferi, magram ukve gamjdaria Cvens xasiaTSi, qvecnobierSi. Cveni kulturis didi nawilia TamaSi. magaliTad, bavSvobidan iwyebdnen TamaSs kartiT, gasarTobad. yvelas gvaxsovs e.w. jokeri, gasarTobi Rirebuleba hqonda, Tumca mere da mere ufro seriozuli saxe miiRo am yvelaferma. azartul TamaSebze damokidebuli adamianebi ageben cxovrebis saukeTeso wlebs, kargaven axloblebisa da ojaxis wevrebis ndobas, sakuTar Tavsac da zogjer, sicocxlesac. profesiuli gamocdilebidan Tu visaubreb, meqanikuria adamianis TamaSze damokidebuleba. is imitom iwyebs TamaSs, rom darwmunebulia, did Tanxas moigebs – ZiriTadi motivacia finansuri sargebelia mainc. Tumca sainteresoa is, rom adamianebi, romlebic TamaSoben, amave dros geubnebian, rom es aris maxe, tyuili, iluzia winaswari ganwyobiT, rom SeiZleba darCe motyuebuli, magram mainc TamaSob. es procesi aris yvelaze gauTviTcnobierebeli nabiji moTamaSis mxridan. samorineSi ar arsebobs saaTi, fanjara, anu iseTi garemo iqmneba iq, rom adamianma dakargos droisa da sivrcis gancda da mudmivad xar mogebis xmebis tyveobaSi. Zalian iSviaTad erTvebian nebayoflobiT fsiqoTerapiul procesSi, radgan, xSir SemTxvevaSi, Zalian uWirT adamianebs gaacnobieron, rom es maTTvis Zalian didi problemaa. arsebobs xvalindeli dRis imedi, rom dRevandel wagebuls amoiReben, ufro mets moigeben da cxovrebas `aawyoben~. ase vTqvaT, miTebiT ikvebebian. adamianis fsiqologiis ZiriTadi safuZveli xom kargad yofna, kargi cxovreba, TviTrealizaciaa, samwuxarod, arajansaRi gziT da arajansaRi mimarTulebiT cdilobs adamiani, miiRos sargebeli da naklebad fiqrobs imaze, rom SeiZleba amiT Zalian bevri ram dakargos. xSir SemTxvevaSi moTamaSeebi kargaven, ojaxs, axloblebs, bolos ki sakuTar Tavsac. pirvel rigSi, TamaSdamokidebul adamianebs minda vuTxra, rom gamosavali yovelTvis arsebobs. problemis mimarT gacnobierebuli damokidebulebiT, profesiuli servisisa da sakuTari motivaciis xarjze, SeiZleba es arajansaRi qceva, damokidebuleba, upirveles yovlisa, sakuTari Tavis da aqedan gamomdinare mikro da makro socialuri garemos mimarT, SemdgomSi ukve dadebiT damokidebulebad Camoyalibdes, – gviTxra fsiqologma
yvelaze mniSvnelovani, rac Tanamedrove epoqaSi adamians sWirdeba, es aris fsiqologiuri, emociuri stabilurobis da moqnilobis gancda, rom gadalaxos stresuli situaciebi. garemo ar aris sruliad usafrTxo da ekologiurad sufTa, arsebobs garkveuli krizisuli situaciebi, romelsac, rogorc zurab qarCava aRniSnavs, sWirdeba jansaRi damokidebuleba. am dros ar unda davkargoT yvelaze mniSvnelovani – sakuTari Tavi, sakuTari me, sakuTari sazrisi, mere ukve ojaxi, megobrebi da ase Semdeg. aucilebelia gamosavlis Zieba. TamaSdamokidebuli adamiani sakuTari gacnobierebuli gadawyvetilebiT unda mivides iqamde, rom mas unda cvlileba, unda, rom Tavi daaRwios problemas da icxovros jansaR garemoSi jansaRi unarebiT, sargebeli miiRos sakuTari Tavisgan, cxovrebisgan, saqmisgan romelsac akeTebs. kiTxvaze, ra nabijebi unda gadadgas saxelmwifom, zurab qarCava pasuxobs, rom pirvel rigSi, unda gaaTviTcnobieros, rom saxelmwifosTvis, adamianebisTvis azartuli TamaSebi aris mavne, garkveuli prevenciuli zomebia gasatarebeli. ar unda xdebodes azartuli TamaSebis reklamireba. Tu Cven gvinda jansaRi garemo, jansaRi moqalaqeebi, ganviTareba da winsvla, orientirebuli unda viyoT jansaR strategiasa da aqtivobebze. fsiqologis TqmiT, aseve udidesi mniSvneloba aqvs imas, Tu rogor aSuqebs media TamaSdamokidebuli adamianebis suicidis Temas. rogorc is ambobs, xSirad xdeba suicidis romantizireba – ise iqmneba siuJeti, TiTqos sxva gamosavali ar arsebobda da amitom moikla adamianma Tavi. zurab qarCava miiCnevs, rom mediam unda aiRos pasuxismgebloba, ar gaazviados da gaamZafros Tema.
– Jurnalistebs didi pasuxismgebloba gWirdebaT aseTi Temebis gaSuqebisas. Cven unda vuTxraT TamaSdamokidebul adamians, rom cvlilebebi SeiZleba daiwyos mxolod sakuTar TavTan jansaRi damokidebulebiT, imis gacnobierebiT, rom es gza damRupvelia da arc ganviTarebisken da arc keTildReobisken midis. mas unda axsovdes, rom yovelTvis ver moigebs, arsebobs rogorc warmateba, aseve – marcxi. mTavaria Seni moqniloba, damokidebuleba am yvelafris mimarT. bevri dadebiTi ramiT SeiZleba Caanacvlo TamaSi. Tu davakvirdebiT TamaSdamokidebulebas, fsiqologiuri meqanizmidan gamomdinare, aq yvelaze mTavaria adamianebis emociuri reaqciis gasadaveba da sxeulTan naklebi kontaqti. fizikuri aqtivoba, sporti, jansaRi urTierToba, komunikacia, cekva, ioga, meditacia – es yvelaferi kargi gamosavalia. aris aseTi mcneba – emociuri inteleqti, romelic grZnobebTanaa kavSirSi. TamaSdamokidebul adamianebs uWirT sakuTari, aseve sxva adamianebis emociis amocnoba. rodesac sxeulTan kontaqti ar gvaqvs, mSrali xar, meqanikuri xar da mxolod kogniciebi gansazRvravs Sens qmedebebs. SeiZleba naxo adamiani, romelsac uWirs, stkiva da es ver ganicado, ver igrZno misi problemebi. sxeulTan kontaqti aris is, ramac SeiZleba daabrunos adamiani realobaSi, radgan TamaSdamokidebuleba ukve irealuri samyaroa, samyaro, sadac ukve iracionaluri tendenciebi imarjvebs da gakargvinebs realobis, droisa da sivrcis aRqmas. Sen xar sxva ganzomilebaSi, mijaWvuli molodins, rom iqnebi welSi gamarTuli, warmatebuli. sinamdvileSi, es ase ar aris.
rogorc giTxariT, gamosavali yovelTvis arsebobs da fsiqologTan vizitic erT-erTia. Tu movusmenT sakuTar sxeuls, ar avyvebiT instinqtur gamoZaxils, yvela problemas adre Tu gvian gadavlaxavT. mTavaria, movindomoT, gvwamdes sakuTari SesaZleblobebis, – gviTxra zurab qarCavam.
