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`daunis sindromis mqone bavSvs aqvs garkveul mimarTulebebSi gansakuTrebuli niWi – uyvars xatva, simRera, cekva da a.S., romlis aRmoCenasac sWirdeba sakmaod didi resursi. swored amitom gadavwyvite, mimeyvana studiaSi, sadac xatvis da Zerwvis garda SeZlebda bavSvebTan urTierTobas da sociumTan integracias. bevri Ziebisa da specialistebis rekomendaciis Semdeg gadavwyvite misi miyvana `art Taim studioSi~ molodiniT, rom Cemi Svili iq, ubralod, bednieri iqneboda, rac kidev ufro Seuwyobda ganviTarebaSi xels~, – wers bavSvis mSobeli ana maxaraZe socialur qselSi. aRniSnulma werilma feisbuqmomxmarebelTa didi vnebaTaRelva da agresia gamoiwvia.
baTumSi mcxovreb ana maxaraZes Svilis studiaSi miyvanisas, mis Sesaxeb maswavleblebisTvis araferi daumalavs. mSoblis TqmiT, nikolozi studiaSi sixaruliT miiRes. is studiidan gaxarebuli da kmayofili dabrunda, Tumca meore dRes daurekes da studiidan bavSvis gayvana sTxoves.
gazeTi `aWara~, ra Tqma unda, dainteresda arsebuli situaciiT. mSobels piradad davukavSirdiT da am sakiTxTan dakavSirebiT komentari vTxoveT.
– Cems eqvsi wlis Svils daunis sindromi aqvs. gadavwyvite, mimeyvana studiaSi, sadac iswavlida xatvas, Zerwvas da a.S. davukavSirdi studia `art Taims~. winaswar avuxseni maT bavSvis mdgomareobis Sesaxeb da vikiTxe, hyavdaT Tu ara gadamzadebuli pedagogebi, visac Cems bavSvTan muSaoba ar gauWirdeboda. isic aRvniSne, rom bavSvs qcevis problema ar aqvs. miTxres, rom Cems Svils miiRebdnen, pirveli gakveTili iqneboda sacdeli – SevxedavT, bavSvi rogor gaumklavdeba am yvelaferso. pirveli gakveTilis Semdeg bavSvi meore dRes Cveulebrivad miiRes, magram gakveTilze rom miviyvane, naxevar saaTSi damirekes, studiaSi moakiTxeo. megona raRac moxda, nikolozs raRac daemarTa da ucebve iq gavCndi.
miTxres, ver gavumklavdiTo, sakuTari TavisTvis da sxvebisTvis zianis momtani qcevebi aqvso. ra Tqma unda, davinteresdi, ra gaakeTa zianis momtani-meTqi, razec aseTi pasuxi miviRe – erT adgilas ar gaCerda, adga, pirSi qaRaldis xelsaxoci Caidoo, amiT sxvebsac xeli SeuSalao. aseTi ram SeiZleba tipuri ganviTarebis bavSvmac gaakeTos, ubralod, saWiroa masTan midgoma icode. gadamaxdevines 2 dRis Tanxac – 20 lari, roca erTi Tvis gadasaxadi 50 laria, Tan, meore dRes bavSvi sul raRac naxevari saaTiT iyo iq. minda aRvniSno is faqtic, rom bavSvis video hqondaT gadaRebuli, sadac lamazad ijda da xatavda. videoSi sxva bavSvebic Candnen. es video Tavis vebgverdze hqondaT dadebuli. vTxove, aeRoT, radgan nikolozi ar miiRes iseTi, rogoric aris. maTi piarisTvis ki namdvilad ar mindoda, es video maT gverdze yofiliyo. 2 dRis ganmavlobaSi video ar auRiaT. roca vwerdi, arc mpasuxobdnen. meore dRes davukavSirdi aWaris daunis sindromis asociaciis xelmZRvanels, vuTxari am yvelafris Sesaxeb, Tumca maTac uTxres, rom video aRebuli hqondaT, rac simarTles ar Seesabameboda. Semdeg mainc aiRes. davukavSirdi da vuTxari – Tu gaqvT danaSaulis grZnobis Tundac 1%, iqneb bodiSi moixadoT da am yvelafers ar gavasajaroeb-meTqi, razec es pasuxi miviRe – Cven bodiSi ar gvaqvs mosaxdeli, Tavs damnaSaved ar vgrZnobTo. maSin am saqmes bolomde miviyvan da ukve sasamarTlom gadawyvitos yvelaferi-meTqi. maT ki miTxres, rom aseve aqvT 200-lariani paketi, sadac Sedis orSabaTidan paraskevis CaTvliT gakveTilebi, aq rom mogeyvanaT bavSvi, davitovebdiTo. iq kvalificiuri pedagogebi gvyavso. Tu SabaT-kviras ver daitoves Cemi Svili, iq 5 dRes rogor daitovebdnen? es ambavi socialur qselSi davde, rasac Zalian didi gamoxmaureba mohyva. studiis gverdze, maT mimarT gamoTqmuli uaryofiTi komentarebi waSales, ramac xalxis agresia gamoiwvia. isic SevTavaze, rom bavSvTan erTad mec davrCeniliyavi 10 wuTiT, TviTon CavrTavdi procesSi da Tu ver gaCerdeboda, waviyvandi. ar var is mSobeli, bavSvs rom Zalas daatans, iZulebiT ar gavaCerebdi, magram es ar moindomes. fsiqologi ar var da fsiqologiurad ver mivudgebi bavSvso. amas fsiqologiuri ki ara, adamianuri midgoma sWirdeba. Sedegs namdvilad ar viTxovdi, CemTvis mniSvnelovania bavSvi baRis garda sxva garemoSic iyos, radgan pandemiaa da sxvagan versad gamyavs. . . Tavdapirvelad, arc ki uTqvamT, rom gadamzadebuli pedagogebi ar hyavdaT am 50-larian paketSi. es rom mcodnoda, SeiZleba arc ki mimeyvana maTTan Svili. me maTic mesmis, magram im principis, riTac gamogviSves, ar mesmis. imitom vibrZvi, rom es sxvagan ar ganmeordes da amaze pasuxi agon. axla bavSvi ukve sxva studiaSi myavs, sadac Cveulebrivad CaerTo procesSi da pedagogic kargad miudga. nikolozi Cvilobidan reabilitaciis sxvadasxva programaSi myavs CarTuli, jgufuria Tu individualuri. masTan yovelmxriv muSaoben specialistebi, es gamocdilebac gvaqvs. Cveulebriv baRSic dadis da msgavsi problema arasdros gvqonia. swored amitom gadavwyvite misi studiaSi miyvana. diagnozSic ki ar uweria, rom bavSvs qcevis problema aqvs. Tu namdvilad ise iyo yvelaferi, rogorc amboben, daerekaT da eTqvaT, modiT da garedan (studiis wina fasadi minisaa) SexedeT bavSvso. raime iseTi rom Cemi TvaliT damenaxa, aucileblad wamoviyvandi nikolozs. me misi dadebiTi da uaryofiTi mxareebic vici da specialistsac vacnob, rom sworad warmarTos masTan muSaobis procesi. ase megona, sul sxva bavSvze melaparakebodnen, – gviTxra ana maxaraZem.
vestumreT saganmanaTleblo SemoqmedebiT studia `art Taims~ da mis warmomadgenel nino biaZes gavesaubreT.
– pandemiidan gamomdinare, studia 1 wlis ganmavlobaSi daxuruli iyo. mSobelma bavSvi rom moiyvana, swavlebis pirveli dRe iyo. mogexsenebaT, mTeli am xnis ganmavlobaSi bavSvebi saxlebSi gamoketilebi iyvnen da es erTgvari stresic ki iyo. studiaSi pirvel dRes saocrad aJitirebuli situacia Seiqmna. iyo xmauri, tirili da a.S. cxadia, Cvenc Zalian rTul situaciaSi aRmovCndiT. regulaciebis Tanaxmad, 15 bavSvze meti SenobaSi ar dagviSvia. manam, vidre Sexvedra daigegmeboda, me da mSobelma visaubreT. man satelefono saubarSi daafiqsira, rom bavSvs hqonda daunis sindromi (maT ar axasiaTebT agresia, sxva diagnozis bavSvebisgan gansxvavebiT). Cven Zalian bevr daunissindromian bavSvTan gviTanamSromlia da siamovnebiT davTanxmdi.
vuTxari: mobrZandiT, oRond rogorc yvela bavSvis (ganurCevlad asakisa da janmrTelobis mdgomareobisa) mSobels, iseve vuTxari, rom gvaqvs sacdeli dro 1-dan 2 dRemde, raTa bavSvs davakvirdeT. vnaxavT, Cvens Sida ganawess daemorCileba Tu ara, Cvens midgomebs rogor moiwonebs mSobeli, Tu igrZnobs bavSvi Tavs Tavisuflad da laRad Cvens sivrceSi. iqneb gaWirveuldes, itiros, an ar moewonos Cveni garemo. deda dagvTanxmda da siamovnebiT moiyvana bavSvi. 5 bavSvi ebara erT pedagogs, mas hyavda erTi damxmare, Tumca bavSvis skamze gaCereba gaWirda. mogexsenebaT, xatva samagido aqtivobaa, amas garda studiaSi bavSvma unda gamoWras, daawebos, SemoqmedebiTi procesi ganaviTaros. Tu irbens, iatakze gawveba an sapirfareSoSi iqneba da iqidan gamosvla ar moundeba (xelebis dabanis xSiri moTxovnileba hqonda), ra azri aqvs? wylis dispensers, faqtobrivad, ver movaSoreT – Rilakze TamaSiT erToboda. . . mesmis, rom pirveli dRe iyo da bavSvi garemos Seimecnebda, amitom pirvel dRes dedas araferi vuTxari. mogexsenebaT, sivrceSi videokamerebi ar gvaqvs, radgan fasadi gamWvirvalea. Cven specialurad ar gagvikeTebia farda-Jaluzebi, raTa mSobels nebismier dros SeeZlos garedan Svils Sexedos. mSoblebs imasac veubnebi, rom SeuZliaT manqanis daburuli minebidan, an Soriaxlodan gvadevnon Tvali. pirdapir minasTan, ra Tqma unda, ar unda gaCerdnen, bavSvebs emociuri foni rom ar hqondeT, Tumca kontrolis uflebas namdvilad vaZlevT. is 10 wuTi, rodesac bavSvi rogorc iqna magidasTan davsviT, TanamSromels videoTi davafiqsirebine, dedas gauxardeba-meTqi, ara mxolod am konkretul bavSvze, sxva bavSvebzec. bunebrivia, aJitirebul da iatakze gawolil bavSvs videoze ar davafiqsirebdiT. yvelanairad SevecadeT, maqsimaluri gavakeTeT imisTvis, rom is Cvengan galaRebuli da bednieri wasuliyo, magram es yvelaferi ris xarjze – Cven viciT: adioda karadaze, funjis wveris CamrTvelSi Seyofis mcdeloba hqonda; im wylis, romelic funjis gasarecxad davudgiT, dalevis mcdelobac hqonda da saswrafod gamovarTviT; wyali ki gamovarTviT, magram raRaciT xom unda Cagvenacvlebina? realurad, Terapia rogor unda daiwyo Tu am Terapiamde ar miiyvane bavSvi? mivawode xelsaxoci, romliTac funji unda gaewminda, 3 cali xelsaxociT burTi gaakeTa da hqonda Caylapvis mcdeloba. faqtobrivad, yelidan amovuRe. bewvis xidze gaviare im wams. es iyo Zalian emociuri momenti. Tqven warmoidgineT, ra SeiZleba momxdariyo piris RruSi mSrali xelsaxociT, roca bavSvs ar aqvs ylapvis da gadmonerwyvis unari (misi diagnozi amis saSualebas ar iZleva)?! verc win agdebs, verc ylapavs. . . me pedagogi var, magram, pirvel rigSi, var adamiani da es viTareba iyo Zalian mZime. vinaidan, Cven gvaqvs studia da ara baRi, bavSvebi saaTobrivad rCebian. Cven ar gvaqvs rbili iataki, ar gvaqvs xaliCa, bavSvebi ar goraven, ar xoxaven. . . isini mxolod magidasTan sxedan, maswavlebeli gakveTils xsnis. 2 saaTSi es procesi sruldeba da isini saxlSi midian. romel Terapiazea saubari, roca bavSvi iatakze gawva da is ar iyo mzad konkretul aqtivobaSi CarTvisTvis?! dedisTvis es aRmoCnda Zalian rTuli momenti – aseT raRacebs ar aSavebso. SeiZleba iseTi webo, xelsaxoci, funji, aseTi garemo nikolozs ar hqonoda aqamde. ki, batono, dadis baRSi, sadac aris rbili xaliCa da saTamaSoebi, sadac gawola da TamaSi SeiZleba, usafrTxo sagnebia. . . aq funji an fanqari SeiZleba TvalSi moixvedros, makratelze laparaki zedmetia. carci rom SevTavazeT, tansacmlis da winsafris moxatva scada, plastelinis SeTavazebisas – SeWma. im dRes gvqonda Tema – aplikacia, magram yvelaferi gadavdeT da Tavisufali Tema davuSviT, sadac bavSvze morgebuli garemo iqneboda. gavacnobiereT pasuxismgebloba, rom gvyavda gansakuTrebuli saWiroebis mqone bavSvi. raxan gvqonda SeTanxmeba, rom 1-2 dRes davkvirvebodi, pirvel dRes araferi davafiqsire. vifiqre, xvalisTvis Sevecdebi, ufro mobilizebulad davxvdeT-meTqi. me maqvs bavSvebTan urTierTobis 16-wliani gamocdileba da, bunebrivia, myolia am diagnozis bavSvebic da aramarto, amaze rTulebic. Cven gvyavs dasaqmebuli studentebi, romlebic xatvas aswavlian da specmaswavleblobaze pretenzia arc aqvT. Cven daunis sindromiani da autisti bavSvebic gvyavs, romlebTanac dRemde vTanamSromlobT. autistebi gacilebiT rTulebi arian, magram isini gadian Zalian seriozul fsiqologiur momzadebas samagido aqtivobisTvis. isini 2 wlidan dadian fsiqologebTan. am konkretul bavSvs, ar vici, visTan aqvs Sexeba da rogor movida aqamde, ratom ar jdeba, elementarul instruqcias ratom ver asrulebs. rogorc deda ambobs, is CarTulia vauCerizaciaSi da saxelmwifo programebSi, magram, cxadia, es ar aris sakmarisi. faqtia, bavSvi arasakmarisadaa mzad am tipis aqtivobisTvis da sagnebs, romlebic aq gamoiyeneba, aramiznobrivad iyenebs, rac safrTxes uqmnis mas. artTerapia iTvaliswinebs imas, rom Cven musika gvaqvs CarTuli, bavSvebi siamovnebiT xataven. Tu bavSvi unda awvalo, ZaliT dasva magidasTan, es aRar aris Terapiuli kursi. amitom mSobels SevTavaze calke programa, sadac gvyavs gadamzadebuli specialistebi, aris Semecnebis sfero, sadac integrirebulia TamaSi, garToba, musika, metyveleba, motorika da a.S. aq arian klasikuri ganviTarebis bavSvebic da SSm pirebic. vuTxari, rom iq ufro nayofieri iqneboda Cveni Sroma. dedam uari miTxra – me sajaro baRSi damyavs bavSvi da es dro ar mawyobso. meore dRes zustad igive mcdelobebi hqonda bavSvs, ukve minis kedlisken midioda, oTaxSi darboda, garemo ufro aiTvisa, moSinaurda da saerTod ar CaerTo procesSi. deda apelirebs, rom misi sociumTan integrireba moxdebodao, roca danarCeni bavSvebi mSvidad xatavdnen. mxolod erTi bavSvi rom darbis, es ukve kursidan amovardnilia, arafris momcemi ar aris. arakeTilsindisierebad CavTvale mSoblisTvis Tanxis gamorTmeva – Tvis bolos ras miiRebda? studiidan araferi dadebiTi ar gahyveboda. mSobelma es ver gaigo da, samwuxarod, arc momismina. ramdenjerme vTxove – dabrZandiT visaubroT-meTqi. gaRizianda, egreve cremlebi wamouvida, daiwyo Cveni lanZRva, wyevla, mohkida bavSvs xeli – faqtobrivad gaaTria: `ar ginda, Svilo – es Cveni adgili ar aris~ msgavsi frazebiT. es yvelaferi xdeboda bavSvebis da TanamSromlebis TandaswrebiT, rac CemTvis iyo Zalian uxerxuli. Cavarda panikaSi, mec, ra Tqma unda, Cemi emociuri foni mqonda, magram `bodiSi, dabrZandiT, visaubroT~ – sxvagvarad ar mimimarTavs. im wams gamomarTva Cveni bukleti, sadac ganTavsebulia Cveni rekvizitebi (verc ki mivxvdi, risTvis sWirdeboda), meore dRes Caricxa 20 lari, razec aqtiurad apelirebda, rom Cven ZaliT gadavaxdevineT 2 dRis safasuri. namdvilad sinanuliT aRvniSnav, rom me xatvis Terapiaze ar myavs kadri, romelmac sworad unda marTos gansakuTrebuli saWiroebis mqone bavSvis qcevebi. magram Cven gvaqvs bevri programa da uamravi kmayofili mSobeli. ar mesmis, vinmem damikanona, rom xatvis maswavlebeli unda iyos specmaswavlebeli? me rom diskriminaciis survili mqonoda da bavSvis miRebis winaaRmdegi vyofiliyavi, Tavidanve ar miviRebdi am bavSvs da arc sxva danarCen situaciaSi gaviwvalebdi Tavs. im dRes mxolod es bavSvi ar gagviSvia studiidan, klasikuri ganviTarebis 3 bavSvic gavuSvi da mSoblebs vuTxari, rom isini ar iyvnen mzad Cveni studiisTvis. bunebrivia, bavSvi romelic makratelsac ver iWers xelSi, ver CaerTveba pirdapir aplikaciis keTebaSi. amas muSaoba sWirdeba. mainterebs, bavSvis dedam misi Svili an baletze an kalaTburTze rom Seiyvanos, specmaswavlebels moiTxovs? an simReraze rom Seiyvanos da ver imReros, pretenzia unda hqondes, ratom ar hyavT specmaswavlebeli? raRac absurdTan gvaqvs saqme. samwuxarod, me da am qalbatons dialogi rom gvqonoda, aqamde ar mividoda saqme. 2-3 dRis Semdeg mirekavs mSobeli da meubneba: gamoaqveyneT bodiSi sruliad saqarTvelos SSm pirebis winaSeo. marTla ver mivxvdi, ratom unda momexada bodiSi maTTvis, roca jgufSi axlac myavs 3 autisti da 1 daunis sindromis mqone bavSvi?! me vinmesTan rame davaSave? am konkretul SemTxvevaSi mas me servisi ver SevTavze da piradad movubodiSe. bavSvi iZulebiT rom dametovebina da Semdeg rame momxdariyo, xom warmogidgeniaT ra mohyveboda? emociurad es iyo CemTvis Zalian rTuli, magram samarTlebrivad ar vTvli Tavs damnaSaved, – gviTxra nino biaZem.
gavesaubreT fsiqosomaturi reabilitaciis programis koordinators, fsiqolog naTia gorgilaZesac.
– nikolozi 40 dRis iyo, roca CvenTan fsiqosomaturi reabilitaciis programaSi CaerTo. is dRemde sxvadasxva programaSia CarTuli. ra Tqma unda, ganviTarebis TvalsazrisiT, aqvs sirTuleebi, Tumca qcevasTan dakavSirebiT problema arasodes hqonia. aqvs zogjer bavSvuri sijiute, romelic SeiZleba nebismier bavSvs hqondes am asakSi. sxva specialistebisgan gansakuTrebuli momarTva arasodes yofila, rom nikolozs, an TviTdamazianebeli, an sxvaTa damazianebeli qceva hqonoda. piriqiT, Zalian komunikabeluri, keTilganwyobili, pozitiuri bavSvia. gebulobs instruqcias, asrulebs davalebebsac da TanamSromlobs CvenTan, ramdenadac SeuZlia – unarebidan gamomdinare. misi qceva arasodes yofila xelisSemSleli Cveni TanamSromlobisTvis. gagvikvirda kidec, es sakiTxi ase rom wamoiwia, – gviTxra naTia gorgilaZem.
