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4 maisi antibulingis dRea. am dRes msoflios bevr qveyanaSi da, maT Soris, saqarTveloSi adamianebi vardisfer maisurebs icvamen simbolod imisa, rom gmoben bulings. termini inglisuria da qarTulad Cagvras, abuCad agdebas niSnavs
bulingis niSnebi dRevandel sociumSi xSiria, aRniSnul problemas vawydebiT quCaSi, samsaxurebSi, ojaxebSi, skolebSi. . . samwuxarod, SeiZleba iTqvas, rom es problema 21-e saukuneSi sakmaod mwvaved dgas. pirdapiri bulingis garda, arsebobs SeniRbuli, verbaluri, fizikuri, aseve, yvelaze xSirad gamoyenebuli – kiberbulingi, roca erTi adamiani an adamianTa jgufi irCevs samiznes da mudmivad zemoqmedebs masze fsiqologiurad.
xSirad bulingis msxverpli ver icavs Tavs, ar mimarTavs Sesabamis uwyebebs, rac fataluri SedegiTac dasrulebula. rogorc fsiqologebi aRniSnaven, bulingi yvelaze xSiria mozardebSi, rasac imiT xsnian, rom isini Tavadac gamxdaran erT dros bulingis msxverpli da cdiloben, TavianTi sisuste vinmes mimarT agresiiT gadafaron. mizezebze saubari Sors wagviyvans, faqtia, rom am yvelaferSi damnaSave varT Cven – sazogadoeba, romelsac ar surs win aRudges usamarTlobas, Tu is Tavad mas ar exeba.
albaT, yvela Cvengans gvqonia erTi SemTxveva mainc, roca saxlSi mosulebi sindisis qenjnas SevuwuxebivarT da gviTqvams – `ara, unda damereka policiaSi~. rogorc me, albaT, Tqvenc Tvalwin dagidgaT, rogor Cagravs erTi adamiani, pirdapir Tu iribad, meores, magram Tqven ar CareulxarT, giTqvamT, rom es Tqveni saqme ar aris, moagvareben. arada, erT mSvenier dRes, SesaZloa, Cven aRmovCndeT Cagrulis adgilas: viRacam zedmeti wonis gamo dagvabulingos an – zedmeti sigamxdris, imis gamoc, rom brenduli tansacmeli ar gvacvia da Tavis gamoCenis mizniT mudmivad wina rigebSi ar vsxdebiT.
unda gaviazroT Cveni moqalaqeobrivi valdebuleba da rogorc SegviZlia, ise aRvkveToT yvela is faqti, romelic bulingis niSnebs Seicavs. mimaCnia, rom dumili danaSaulis Tanamonawiled gvaqcevs. nu viqnebiT Cagvris Tanamonawile, xma maSinac amoviRoT, roca is ara Cveni ojaxis wevrs, megobars exeba, aramed maSinac, roca quCaSi mimavali vxedavT, rogor Cagraven sxvas, CvenTvis ucnob adamians.
gadavwyvite, erT-erT skolaSi mcire gamokiTxva Cametarebina, ubralod mekiTxa, ician Tu ara, ras niSnavs bulingi da gamxdaran Tu ara Cagvris msxverpli. daaxloebiT 15 bavSvs vesaubre, romelTagan umravlesobam icoda terminis Sesaxeb, Tumca arcerTs ar daudasturebia is, rom bulingis msxverpli Tavad gamxdara. mxolod erTma gogonam, romelmac mTxova, vinaoba ar gamemxila, Tavisi ambavi momiTxro.
– ukve meTerTmete klasSi var da 4 skola gamovicvale. albaT mkiTxavT, ras vmogzaurob. daviwyeb imiT, rom socialurad daucvel ojaxSi gavizarde, arasdros gvqonda araTu gemrieli saWmlis fufuneba, aramed saWmelic ki. dedaCemi TurqeTSi gadadioda Cais sakrefad, mama svamda da saRamos me da Cems das gvsayvedurobda, Tqven gamo varT am dReSi me da dedaSeni, Tqven rom ar iyoT, Cvens Tavs rogorme movuvlidiT, arc coli iqneboda ase Sors Cemgano. Tu mTvrali iyo, dagvsvamda da saaTobiT gvayvedrida absoluturad yvelafers, imasac ki, rom sicocxle gvaCuqa. xSirad, oTaxSi SeyuJul me da Cems das isic ki gvinatria, rom neta ar davbadebuliyaviT. cotaTi damnaSaved vgrZnob Tavs, amas rom giyvebiT, radgan mama ori wlis win gardaicvala, guli gauCerda, magram aucileblad minda giTxraT is, rac mawuxebs, miuxedavad imisa, rom saxelisa da gvaris sajarod Tqmas kidev ver vbedav – morigi bulingis meSinia. roca patara viyavi, mezoblis ZaRlma SemaSina, mas Semdeg enis borZiki damCemda, swored es iyo da aris dRemde Cemi dabulingebis Tema. viTom uwyinrad meubnebian, aba, gaimeore es sityva, is sityva, rom mere icinon. erTma Cemma klaselma qarTulis maswavlebels uTxra, maswavlebelo, amas ar moayolo leqsi, mainc daamaxinjebso. mxolod moswavleebis mxridan – ara, maswavleblebis mxridanac migrZvnia Cagvra, ai, magaliTad, xeli amiwevia, dafasTan gasvla miTxovia, magram ar gamovuZaxebivar, albaT Cemi mosmena daezara. arc RonisZiebebSi mrTavdnen, arc sxva raime SekrebebSi, sadac Tavis wardgena iyo saWiro. am yvelafris Semdeg ki ise davkompleqsdi, xSirad saerTod ar viReb xmas, miuxedavad imisa, rom TiTqmis yvela gakveTils erTnairad vamzadeb. am yvelafris Semdeg `cudi moswavlec~ gavxdi, magram aravis ukiTxavs mizezi, ram ganapiroba es. deda meubneba sul, Seni Tavi Seiyvare iseTi, rogoric xaro, magram jer ver SevZeli, fsiqologiurad ver mivaRwie TviTdajerebis im zRvars, rom davZlio kompleqsi da Cemive naklze, iseve, rogorc sxvebi icinian, mec SevZlo gacineba. ho, erTi biWi momwonda, Cems klasels gavumxile, iman ki mipasuxa, mag biWs iseTi gogoebi moswons, Sen zedac ar Semogxedavs, ase rom, moeSvi ocnebaso. xSirad adamianebi verc ki iazreben, ise gtkenen guls. marTla ar mjera, Segnebulad rogor SeiZleba adamians miayeno tkivili? – miTxra gogonam.
dasasrul, vityvi, rom yvela erTad unda davdgeT erTmaneTis keTildReobis sadarajoze, viswavloT Cveni uflebebi da yvelaferi gavakeToT im adamianebisTvis, vinc dacvas saWiroebs, dRes, axla da aq, vuTxraT bulings – ara! vuTxraT ara – Zaladobis yovelgvar gamovlinebas, romelic aferxebs Cvens ganviTarebas. mimaCnia, rom TiToeuli adamiani Rirsia iyos bednieri, icxovros mSvidad da siyvaruliT.
