როგორ ერთობიან ახალგაზრდები და რა სურთ მეტი თავისუფლებისათვის?
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rogor erTobian qarTveli axalgazrdebi dRes da ras akeTeben Tavisufal dros? am kiTxviT ramdenime axalgazrdas mivmarTeT
sanam maT pasuxebs SemogTavazebT, getyviT, rom ZiriTadi, razec axalgazrdebi regularulad xarjaven dros, es musikis mosmena, filmebis yureba da megobrebTan erTad garTobaa, axalgazrdebis arcTu ise didi nawilisTvis ki Tavisufali dro sportul aqtivobebsa da laSqrobasTan asocirdeba. maT aseve vkiTxeT, garTobis dros ramdenad arian Tavisuflebi da am kuTxiT xom ar arsebobs raime xelisSemSleli piroba, rac erTgvar diskomforts uqmniT. axalgazrdebis umravlesoba Tvlis, rom Tavisufalia, radgan ukve srulwlovania da esmis, ra aris misTvis kargi da cudi, Tumca iyvnen iseTebic, romlebmac Cumad gagvandes, rom maT garTobas, Tundac Ramis or-sam saaTamde, `xels uSlis~ mSobeli, romlis argumentia, rom marTalia, Svils endoba da icis, rom cuds arafers Caidens, magram ar endoba sxvas da surs igi droulad dabrundes saxlSi. dRes, roca sxvadasxva kafesa Tu restoranSi, aseve Ramis klubSi araerTi Sexla-Semoxlis momswreni gavmxdarvarT, bunebrivia, mSoblis pozicia, riTac cdilobs Svili aaridos SesaZlo Cxubs, agresias, rasac zedmeti alkoholis miRebis dros arcTu ise iSviaTad gamoxataven adamianebi. axalgazrdebi miiCneven, rom xSirad ama Tu im kuTxiT akrZalvebi `akrZaluli xili gemrielias~ principiT cdunebas rTavs maTSi da cdiloben, raimenairi xerxiT mainc gaerTon ise da im droiT, rogorc maT surT. rogorc fsiqologebi aRniSnaven, mSoblebma pativi unda scen Svilebis pirad sivrces, magram Tu es safrTxes ukavSirdeba, ar unda datovon ukontrolod. am SemTxvevaSi rTulia gavarkvioT, sad gadis zRvari mozardis Tavisuflebasa da kontrolis saWiroebas Soris maSin, roca axalgazrdebi egocentrul asakSi imyofebian, anu, isini movlenebs mxolod sakuTari TvalTaxedviT aRiqvamen da uWirT sxvisi poziciidan maTi Sefaseba. aseT dros vfiqrobT, rom aucilebelia mSobelma ufro metad mousminos Svils da daexmaros TviTdamkvidrebaSi, agrZnobinos, rom is mis gverdiTaa da mxars uWers. CavatareT axalgazrdebis gamokiTxva sxvadasxva kafe-barsa Tu quCaSi, raTa erTgvari suraTi dagvexata, Tu rogor erTobian axalgazrdebi dRes da ra miaCniaT am kuTxiT Tavisuflebad. gamomdinare iqidan, rom respondentebis nawili arasrulwlovania, gadavwyviteT anonimuroba dagvecva da pirobiTi saxelebiT warmogidginoT isini, Tumca asaks identurs vtovebT.
nino, 16 wlis:
– ori welia megobrebTan erTad klubSi davdivar. Tavdapirvelad amas aprotestebdnen Cemi mSoblebi, Tumca erT dRes orives avuxseni, rom am gamudmebuli kiTxvebiT: `sad xar~, `rodis moxval~, `visTan erTad xar~ stresSi magdeben da Cemi fsiqika amis gamo mudmivad daZabulia, ris gamoc ver vaxden garTobasa da siamovnebaze koncentracias. marTalia, rTulad, magram Seeguen, rom SeiZleba Ramis sam saaTze davbrunde saxlSi da es sulac ar niSnavs, rom raime cudi gavakeTe. Tu adamiani azrovnebs, Tu icis ra unda, Tu aqvs myari fsiqologia, ar wamoegeba aranair ankess. minda yvela mSobels vTxovo, nu cdilobT Tqveni cxovrebis gagrZeleba iyvnen Tqveni Svilebi, mieciT maT TviTdamkvidrebis, TviTgamorkvevis saSualeba. Sinagani TavisuflebisTvis ufro meti Tavisufleba msurs da aravis aqvs ufleba, xeli SemiSalos sakuTari Tavis ZiebaSi.
daTa, 17 wlis:
– marTali giTxraT, baTumSi garTobis `xelwera~ sul erTnairia, ver vityvi, rom am kuTxiT, miT umetes – zamTarSi, rame saintereso xdeba, Tumca megobrebi mainc vikribebiT ama Tu im kafeSi da vcdilobT, gaverToT, movusminoT musikas. Cveni Sekreba ZiriTadad uqmeebzea, radgan sxva dReebSi vmuSaobT. wels gadavwyviteT, saqarTvelos sxvadasxva kuTxe dagveTvalierebina. svaneTis da yazbegis monaxuleba SevZeliT, aseve – maRalmTiani aWaris. es dReebi CemTvis adrenaliniviT iyo, gantvirTva, romelic sul sxva emociebiT gavsebs. marTlac saocari qveyana gvaqvs, saocari buneba. svaneTis mistikurobam gansakuTrebuli STabeWdileba moaxdina Cemze, Tumca aRvfrTovandi maRalmTiani aWaris veluri bunebiT. minda, yvela axalgazrdas Cvens qveyanaSi, vusurvo warmatebebi, sakuTari qveynis ukeT gacnoba da yvela STabeWdilebis furcelze gadatana. `emociebis skivri~ – ase davarqvi dRiurs, sadac Cemi cxovrebis saintereso wuTebs viniSnav, wlebis Semdeg rom gadavikiTxo da davtkbe.
lana, 15 wlis:
– mama mezRvauria da dedas aqvs SeTavsebuli misi wili kontrolic – sul ainteresebs, rogor var da visTan erTad. meubneba, rom saRamos 12 saaTze saxlSi unda viyo. ramdenime wuTi Tu gadavacile, ewyeba panikuri SiSi – mirekavs, urekavs yvela Cems megobars, erTi sityviT, Zalian SezRuduli vyavar garTobis kuTxiT, arada, roca sadRac megobrebTan erTad xar, dro ise gadis, verc ki amCnev, Tumca es, samwuxarod, ver gavagebine Cems usayvarles dedas, romelsac xSirad vabrazeb sityvebiT – `Cemo jalaTo~. mesmis mSoblebis, Tumca maTac unda esmodeT Cveni, unda gvendobodnen. ori Tvis win klubSi Cemi daqali moiwamla sasmeliT, imis Semdeg saerTod aRar unda Cemi gaSveba, eWvobs, rom man kluburi abebi miiRo, verafriT davajere, rom, ubralod, moiwamla da meti araferi.
nana, 25 wlis:
– gantvirTvisTvis, ZriTadad, kafe-barebs vstumrob, aris baTumSi ramdenime sivrce, sadac mixval da karg, cocxal musikas mousmen. restornuli, mama-papuri garToba ar mxiblavs, davdivar iq, sadac mSvidad visaubreb, megobrebTan erTad kviris ambebs ganvixilav da musikas movusmen. visurveb, rom axalgazrdebisTvis iyos salonuri sivrce baTumSi, sadac SeeZlebaT gaakeTon gamofenebi, moawyon poeziis saRamoebi, dagegmon SemecnebiTi aqtivobebi, wignis ganxilvebi, musikis konkretuli Janris dReebi, bevri saintereso ramis mofiqreba SeiZleba. axalgazrdebs Cvens qalaqSi unda hqondeT sivrceebi, sadac usasyidlod SeeZlebaT niWis gamomzeureba.
giorgi, 19 wlis:
– CemTvis garToba laSqrobasTan asocirdeba, eqstremalur situaciebTan, rac xSirad safrTxisSemcvelia, Tumca Seudarebelia misgan mogvrili emociebi. 15 wlis da myavs, romelic megobrebTan erTad xSirad dadis sxvadasxva gasarTob sivrceSi. ver vityvi, rom mSvidad var, roca gviania ukve da saxlSi ar aris, magram vici, sad aris da ra situaciaSi, Tavs ar vaZlev uflebas, zedmetad gavakontrolo. yvela adamians aqvs Tavisi piradi sivrce, risi gadalaxvis uflebac ar gvaqvs, da iqneba is, Zma Tu nebismieri axlobeli.
rogorc fsiqologebi aRniSnaven, Tu gvsurs Cveni Svilebi realizebuli da sakuTar SesaZleblobebSi darwmunebuli adamianebi iyvnen, unda movusminoT maT da mivceT ufleba, iyvnen individualurebi, Tavisuflebi sakuTar arCevanSi – garToba iqneba es Tu cxovrebis wesi.
