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`qmari meubneba, rom Zalian msuqani var da wonaSi unda daviklo~, `meuRle mcems~, `Cemi Zma memuqreba, rom Tu saxlSi 11 saaTamde ar mival, gareT saerTod aRar gamiSvebs~, – es im adamianebis frazebia, romlebic dRes Zaladobis msxverplni arian.

Zaladoba, samwuxarod, ukanaskneli aTwleulebis ganmavlobaSi erT-erTi aqtualuri problemaa. qarTul realobaSi xSiria ojaxSi qalTa mimarT Zaladobis faqtebi, romlebic ganixileba adamianTa uflebebis yvelaze seriozul darRvevad. Zaladoba farTodaa gavrcelebuli sxvadasxva religiis, rasis, eTnikuri warmomavlobisa da gansxvavebuli kulturis warmomadgenlebSi.

Zaladobis sxvadasxva forma arsebobs, esenia: fizikuri, ekonomikuri, seqsualuri, adamianis fizikuri an fsiqologiuri iZuleba, ugulebelyofa da a.S.

davinteresdi, dRes saqarTveloSi qalebi, umetesad, ra tipis Zaladobis msxveplni arian da am SekiTxviT mivmarTe fsiqolog alina gurgeniZes.

– qalebi, upirvelesad fizikur Zaladobas ganicdian, rac gulisxmobs fizikuri Zalis gamoyenebas sxva adamianze. gavrcelebulia, aseve, emociuri da fsiqologiuri Zaladoba -rodesac adamianis emociebs, TviTSefasebas akontrolebs moZalade da emociurad manipulirebs; seqsualuri Zaladoba – arakonsensualuri seqsualuri qmedeba; ekonomikuri da finansuri Zaladoba. bolo dros moZalade mamakacebisgan gaxSirda kiberbulingi – negatiuri komentarebi, araeTikuri videoebisa da fotoebis gaziareba da sxva, – gvipasuxa fsiqologma.

sayuradReboa, rom dRes seqsualuri Zaladobis msxverpli qalebis ricxvi sagrZnoblad gaizarda. socialur qselebSi xSirad gvxvdeba postebi, sadac isini saubroben maTze ganxorcielebul seqsualur Zaladobaze.

Cven gavesaubreT erT-erT qalbatons, romelic samsaxurSi ufrosis mxridan seqsualuri Zaladobis msxverpli iyo. misi TxovniT, vinaobas ar vamxelT.

– qmarTan daSorebis Semdeg, axalgazrda kacma, romelTan erTadac adre vmuSaobdi, sakuTar kompaniaSi samsaxuri SemomTavaza da mec davTanxmdi. anazRaurebac mSvenieri mqonda, Svilsa da mSoblebs arafers vaklebdi. gavida ramdenime Tve da kompaniam qalaqgareT korporatiuli saRamo moawyo. gaverTeT, davlieT da kompaniis mflobels vuTxari, rom misi madlobeli viyavi, radgan samsaxuri damawyebina. mas, rogorc ufros Zmas, ise vuyurebdi da sul meimedeboda, rac Tavadac icoda. simarTle giTxraT, misgan zedmeti yuradReba arasdros migrZnia. korporatiuli saRamodan 1-2 saaTis Semdeg miTxra, rom samsaxuris saqmeze salaparako hqonda da mis sastumro oTaxSi Sevsuliyavi. albaT, ufro fxizeli rom vyofiliyavi, an misgan odesme rame simpaTia megrZno, ar Sevidodi, magram rom endobi adamians, masze cuds aRar fiqrob. oTaxSi roca Sevedi, raRacnairad cudi SegrZneba dameufla. aivanze gavedi da vuTxari, aq visaubroT – meTqi, Tumca ver daviTanxme. amis Semdeg scada Cemze Zaladoba, vemudarebodi, gaCerebuliyo, sabolood, ar vici, muqaram gaWra, Txovnam Tu sxva ramem, magram bolo momentSi xeli gamiSva da gadavrCi. yvelaze gasakviri is aris, rom am kacs sacole hyavda. mindoda meCivla, Tumca vicodi, sakuTari simarTlis damtkiceba gamiWirdeboda da man Tavisuflad ganagrZo cxovreba. Semdeg gavige, rom bevr gogoze uZaladia. 5 weli gavida, magram am stress ver vineleb da albaT, verasdros movineleb. am ambavs dRemde emociurad vixseneb, yelSi burTi meCxireba da cremlebSi vixrCobi. me maSin suicidzec vfiqrobdi, magram sakuTari Tavi ver gavimete. Tavis droze imdenad damca beWebze am ambavma, rom iq realurad gamaupatiura Tu ara, ukve measexarisxovania, am stresma Cemi fsiqika Seiwira. amas imitom giyvebiT, minda sxva gogonebs, romlebsac gamoucdiaT Zaladoba an axla ganicdian, stimuli mivce, rom yvelafris miuxedavad, cxovreba ganagrZon, sulierad ar daecnen, – gviTxra Cvenma respondentma.

Zaladoba Zalian mniSvnelovani Temaa da arasdros kargavs aqtualurobas. amitom qalbatonebs mivmarTeT SekiTxviT, ras Tvlian Zaladobad.

– rTulia lakoniurad axsna, ra aris Zaladoba. Cemi azriT, igi SeiZleba iyos fizikuri, sityvieri, fsiqologiuri, zogadad, bevr garemoebazea damokidebuli. umTavresad mainc, albaT, isaa, a adamians raime formiT aiZulo, moimoqmedos (an scado) is, risi gakeTebac sakuTari nebiT ar surs.

fizikuri Zaladoba martivi dasamtkicebelia, radgan misi kvali karga xans rCeba sxeulze da kvalificireba SedarebiT iolia, Sesabamisad, bralis damtkicebac da damnaSavis dasjac. sityvieri an fsiqologiuri Zaladobis faqtebiT damtkiceba ki gacilebiT rTulia, gansakuTrebiT, saqarTveloSi, sadac lanZRvasa da kritikas erTmaneTisgan ar asxvaveben da kritikas Seuracxyofad iReben. msgavs situaciaSi saukeTeso gamosavali albaT isaa, rom faqti, mravaljeradad ganmeorebis SemTxvevaSi, kvalificirdes sityvier Zaladobad, – gviTxra nana gureSiZem.

Tamar ugrexeliZis TqmiT, Zaladobaa nebismieri sityva an qmedeba, romelic mas arTmevs arCevanis uflebas.

– Zaladobaa, rodesac vinme ar maZlevs arCevanis uflebas. saqarTveloSi gansakuTrebiT aqtualuria manipulaciebiT Zaladoba, samwuxarod, axlobeli adamianebisgan, romlebic gvizRudaven arCevanis SesaZleblobas. Zaladobas roca vaxsenebT, ratomRac yvelas msxverplad qali warmoudgenia, arada, arcTu iSviaTad kacebic gvxvdebian Zaladobis msxverplis rolSi. erT-erT feisbuqpostSi gamoqveynda qalTa mimarT Zaladobis procentuloba da iq guruli kaci akomentarebda, kacebi, etyoba, ar gamoukiTxavTo. Zaladobis survili mowmobs adamianebis ganaTlebisa da Segnebis dabal dones, usvams xazs imas, rom mxolod diplomi pirovnebis ganviTarebas ar niSnavs, – aRniSna Tamar ugrexeliZem.

marTlac, aucileblad unda aRvniSnoT kacTa mimarT Zaladobac. xSirad vsaubrobT maTi mxridan Cadenil cud qmedebebze, magram gvaviwydeba, rom kacebic ganicdian sociumis mxridan Zaladobas.

kacTa mimarT Zaladobis sawyisi etapi bavSvobaa. Tu biWi atirda, xSirad arcxvenen da miuTiTeben, gaCerdes, radgan mxolod gogonebi tirian da biWis tirili sircxvilia. es frazebi bavSvis gonebaSi ileqeba da ukve zrdasrul asakSi kompleqsebis mizezi xdeba.

Zaladobaa isic, bavSvobaSi biWebs „kacurad“ rom arigeben, vinc awyeninebs, aucileblad unda scemos, sastikad gauswordes. Aamgvari `rCeva-darigebebi~ uaryofiTad moqmedebebs bavSvis fsiqikaze.

Kkacebis mimarT xSiria fsiqologiuri Zaladobis iseTi forma, rodesac sxvebis TvalSi TiTqos misi sqesisTvis `Seusabamo~ profesias irCevs. magaliTad: konditerobas, dizainerobas da a.S.

biWebze Zaladobrivi wnexi maSin izrdeba, rodesac maT ojaxis wevrebi adreul asakSi finansur damoukideblobas sTxoven, aseve, daqorwinebis Semdeg yvela elodeba, rom pirveli Svili aucileblad biWi iyos, rac sxvis TvalSi mis mamakacur siZlieres daadasturebs.

sainteresoa, Tavad mamkacebis azri ZaladobasTan dakavSirebiT, amitom gavesaubreT Tornike jinWaraZes.

– pirvel rigSi, Zalian didi madloba, rom kacTa mamarT Zaladobazec saubrobT, radgan Zaladobas genderi ar gaaCnia. Zaladobis erT-erT mkafio magaliTad SemiZlia davasaxelo ojaxis mxridan mamakacze Zaldataneba colis SerTvis moTxovniT. biWis ded-mamas SviliSvili surs, amitom mSoblebi masze fsiqologiur zewolas axdenen, rom male daojaxdes. arada, mamakacs SeiZleba daojaxeba ar surdes. aseve, mSoblebi xSirad aiZuleben Svilebs, cols gaSordnen, Tu maTi ojaxis Sesaferisad ar CaTvales da ase Semdeg. samwuxarod, Cems sanacnoboSi amis Zalian bevri magaliTi vici, – gviTxra Tornike jinWaraZem.

giorgi diasamiZis TqmiT, mzrunveli deda SeasaZloa, fsiqologiur moZaladedac iqces.

– deda rom Svilze zrunavs, yvelam viciT, magram, biWebis mimarT dedebis egoisturi qceva SeiZleba erTgvar Zaladobadac aRviqvaT. saubari maqvs iseT dedebze, romlebic sakuTar vaJebs Tavisuflad sunTqvis saSualebas ar aZleven. xSirad, 40 wlis mamakacebsac ki dReSi milionjer urekaven da yvela nabijs ukontroleben. aris SemTxvevebi, dedebi Svilebs ar aZleven damoukideblad cxovrebis saSualebas, miuxedavad imisa, rom mis Svils ukve ojaxi aqvs, mainc ereva yoveldRiurobaSi. aseve, deda ver egueba, rom misi Svilis cxovrebaSi gamoCnda qali, romelsac cxovreba daukavSira da iwyebs rZalze eWvianobas, rac misi vaJi fsiqikas vnebs, radgan erTgvari arCevanis winaSe dgeba. es CemTvis Zaladobaa. aseve, mxolod qalebi ar xdebian fizikuri Zaladobis msxverplni, radgan isinic scemen mamakacebs.

qalis mxridan Zaladobaa, rodesac meuRles xSirad eubneba, rom umweoa, rac Tavmoyvareobas ulaxavs.“ – Tqva CvenTan saubarSi giorgi miqelaZem.

Zalian saintereso gamodga aleqsandre diasamiZesTan saubari, romelic ZaladobasTan dakavSirebiT samagistro Temas wers da siRrmiseulad ecnoba qalTa mimarT Zaladobis sakiTxebs.

– qalze Zaladoba CemTvis, rogorc am sakiTxiT dainteresebuli pirisTvis, uamrav formasTan asocirdeba – es iqneba fizikuri, fsiqologiuri, seqsualuri Tu ekonomikuri.

msmenia qalebis Sesaxeb, romlebsac meuRle Tanxis yovel TeTr danaxarjzec ki angariSs sTxovs, ar aZlevs wvdomas sabanko angariSebze, sakuTarzec ki, TviTneburad gankargaven meuRlis Semosavlebsa Tu danazogebs. aRniSnuls amarTleben imiT, rom kaci odiTganve ojaxis mmarTvelia da es gamarTlebulia. Cemi SexedulebiT (da aramarto), es ekonomikuri Zaladobis formaa, rac negatiurad aisaxeba qalze. SeiZleba gamoiwvios mniSvnelovani emociuri distresi, rogoricaa SfoTva da dabali TviTSefaseba. qalTa mimarT ZaladobasTan dakavSirebiT, Tvisebrivi kvlevis farglebSi, mqonia qalebTan siRrmiseuli interviuebi. qalTa mimarT Zaladoba umravlesobisTvis asocirdeboda mxolod fizikur ZaladobasTan, fizikur SexebasTan, sxeulis dazianebasTan da a.S., arada, zemoaRniSnul interviuSic gamoikveTa Zaladobis bevrad meti forma.

umravlesobis azriT, alogikuria muqara, SantaJi, kontroli, manipulireba an damcireba Zaladobis raime formasTan gaaigivo. bevrs konkretuli qeisis identificirebac ki ar SeuZlia, romeli iyo manipulaciuri da romeli – normaluri qceva. vTanxmdebiT, rom yvela CamoTvlili, fsiqologiuri Zaladobis formebia da individs gacilebiT did da xangrZliv zians ayenebs. saqme ara sxeulTan, aramed fsiqikasTan gvaqvs, rac Zalzed mtkivneuli, mZime da Rrma sakiTxia. vacnobiereb, rom yovelive zemoT ganxiluli savsebiT SesaZlebelia, bundovani, gaugebari da araqarTuli iyos sazogadoebis nawilisTvis, maTTvis, visTvisac Zaladoba mxolod fizikur SeuracxyofasTan igivdeba, sxva formebi ki mamakacurobis dadasturebaa, rac, mavanTa azriT, Cveni kulturiTaa nakarnaxevi. maT msjelobas Tu gavyvebiT, or daskvnamde mivdivarT – an Cveni kultura Zaladobis momxrea, radgan CemTvis Zaladoba mxolod fizikuri dazianeba ar aris, an arasworad esmiT kultura. me ufro meore mgonia, – aRniSna aleqsandre diasamiZem.

samwuxarod, dRes saqarTveloSi (da aramarto) Zaladoba ver kontroldeba, metic, wlidan wlamde ufro da ufro imatebs. misi formebi yoveldRiur cxovrebaSi gvxvdeba da masTan gamklaveba Zalian did sirTulesTanaa dakavSirebuli, Tumca arc SeuZlebelia.