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am kiTxvaze dRevandel saqarTveloSi pasuxis gacema Zalian rTulia, radgan praqtikulad ar aris gasaSvilebeli bavSvi, Tu im moTxovnebs gaviTvaliswinebT, rasac Tavad mSvileblebi ayeneben.
erTi mxriv, sasixaruloa, rom Cvens qveyanaSi TiTze CamosaTvlelia upatrono bavSvebi, magram es – erTi SexedviT. jer kidev aris 220 patara, romelic ver `jdeba~ mSvilebelTa `gemovnebaSi~, radgan maTi umravlesoba SSm piria, xolo aseT bavSvebze pasuxismgeblobis aRebas ver bedaven Svils danatrebuli ojaxebi.
mogexsenebaT, saxelmwifom mkacrad mohkida xeli CvilebiT vaWrobas. bevr samSobiaroSi gamoaaSkaraves da sisxlis samarTlis pasuxisgebaSi misces maxinj procesebSi CarTuli eqimebi da eqTnebi, Tumca am biznesiT dakavebulma pirebma, adre pirdapir samSobiarodan rom awarmoebdnen Svilad ayvanis procedurebs, taqtika Secvales da kanonis Semovlis meore gza ipoves. sqema Semdegia: Suamavlebi ukavSirdebian fexmZime qalebs, romlebsac ar surT bavSvis datoveba, Semdeg pouloben mSvileblebs, romlebic sakuTar Tavze iReben momavali dedis kvebis da mSobiarobis xarjebs. bavSvis dabadebis Semdeg, mamobaze gancxadebas wers ojaxis mama da mis cols, ukve geris statusian bavSvze aRar uWirs dedobis gaformeba. rac Seexeba fasebs – SeTanxmebiTaa. zogierTi Suamavalis gareSe, Tavad poulobs aseT ojaxebs da sakuTari bavSviT karg mogebas naxulobs. xdeba isec, deda mxolod pataris momavalze fiqrobs da ar kadrulobs pirmSos gaSvilebisTvis fulis aRebas, magram faqtia isic, rom oficialuri gzebiT, sanam bavSvs iSvileb, ukve sapensio asakis gaxdebi, ris Semdegac aravin mogcems Svilad ayvanis uflebas.
ratom mimdinareobs zemoT xsenebuli procesebi msgavsi scenariT, amaze da sxva Temebze gazeT `aWarasTan~ saubrobs saqarTvelos socialuri saagentos meurveobisa da mzrunvelobis sammarTvelos ufrosi eTer cxakaia.
– qalbatono eTer, daviwyoT statistikiT: sul ramdeni mSvilebeli da gasaSvilebelia dRes qveyanaSi?
– daregistrirebulia 2800 mSvilebeli da 220 problemuri bavSvi, romelic ver Svildeba, radgan moTxovna ar aris. isini arian an aTi wlis da zemoT asakis, an SSm pirebi.
– Tqven rom SesTavazoT es bavSvebi ojaxebs, iqneb gadaxedon sakuTar prioritetebs?
– Cven ara gvaqvs ufleba, SevTavazoT maTi Svileba, radgan moTxovna ar fiqsirdeba.
– janmrTeli Cvilebi ar arian?
– ki, rogor ara, magram maTze rigi ar iqmneba, radgan dauyovneblivi SeTavazebis procesSi xvdebian.
– rac Seexeba mozrdilebs, isini xom arian janmrTelebi?
– diax, magram mSvilebelTa umetesobas surs, mcire asakidan Seiyvanos ojaxSi bavSvi, Tanac es mozrdilebi ar Tanxmdebian gaSvilebas, radgan dabadebidan arian saxelmwifos mzrunvelobis qveS da uWirT ojaxur sistemaSi CarTva, anu Tavad amboben uars. ra Tqma unda, maTTan vmuSaobT, magram Zalian uWirT gacnobiereba, Tu raoden mniSvnelovania maTTvis mudmiv biologiur garemoSi yofna. iyo SemTxvevebi, roca zogierTi maTgani Seiyvanes ojaxebSi, magram ukve SeTavsebis periodSi Tqves uari, ver Seeguen ojaxur garemos verc bavSvebi da verc ufrosebi – Tavad bavSvebs.
– ZiriTadad ra problemebi iqmneba?
– isini wlebis ganmavlobaSi SeeCvivnen arsebuli cxovrebis wess. odesRac mitovebulebs, darRveuli aqvT mijaWvulobis SegrZneba, rac isaxeba maTi ganviTarebis yvela etapze. aseTi bavSvebi xasiaTdebian rTuli qceviT, aqvT garkveuli damokidebuleba ama Tu im sakiTxze da rigiT mSoblebs ki ara, specialistebsac uWirT am kuTxiT maTTan muSaoba. yvelaze gadamwyveti ki mainc isaa, rom Tavad mozardebi acxadeben kategoriul uars ojaxebSi Svilobilis statusiT Sesvlaze.
– rogorc cnobilia, bavSvTa saxlebis funqcionirebis forma Seicvala.
– diax, bavSvTa keTildReobis reformis farglebSi, yvela didi zomis bavSvTa saxli daSlilia. dRes darCenilia mxolod ori, romlis reorganizaciac mimdinareobs.
– amJamad sad arian iq ganTavsebuli bavSvebi?
– bavSvebis 52% biologiur ojaxs daubrunda, danarCens ki saxelmwifom SesTavaza alternatiuli varianti – mcire saojaxo tipis saxlebi, sadac danergilia mindobiT aRzrdis forma. kerZod, iq iqmneba mravalSviliani ojaxebisTvis damaxasiaTebeli momsaxureba da msgavsi garemo.
– vis SeuZlia msgavsi tipis saxlebis Camoyalibeba?
– Cveulebriv ojaxebs, romlebic akmayofileben garkveul kriteriumebs da gavlili aqvT saTanado procedurebi mimRebi mSoblebis uflebis mosapoveblad. am procedurebs aregulirebs Svilad ayvanisa da mindobiT aRzrdis Sesaxeb kanoni. mSoblebTan saxelmwifo aformebs specialur xelSekrulebebs da afinansebs maT bavSvis aRsazrdelad saWiro TanxiT. cxadia, amaSi Sromis anazRaurebac Sedis.
– rac Seexeba biologiur ojaxebSi dabrunebul bavSvebs, rogor daiTanxmeT mSoblebi, romlebsac adre internatSi hyavdaT Svilebi Cabarebuli?
– am mxriv didi samuSaoebi Catarda. SevTanxmdiT, rom vinc daibrunebda Svilebs, maT saxelmwifo gadauxdida reintegraciis Tanxas, Tumca, imaze naklebs, vidre mimReb mSoblebs aZlevs.
– ratom naklebs an sulac ratom uxdian Tanxas biologiur mSoblebs, ase xom sxvebic moiTxoven fuls sakuTari bavSvis aRzrdisTvis?
– diax, am SekiTxvas xSirad gvisvamen da Sevecdebi Tqvenc konkretulad gipasuxoT. Cven vcadeT gagverkvia, ratom Caabares Svilebi internatSi. yvelas sxvadasxva mizezi hqonda, ZiriTadad, es iyo rogorc finansuri, ise sxva saxis problema. swored amitom davaweseT maTTvis gadaxdis sistema, rasac davamateT moqmed socialur programebSi maTi prioritetulad CarTva. vgulisxmob ojaxis dasaxmarebel yvela momsaxurebas. saboloo jamSi, isicaa saTqmeli, rom am xalxs (socialuri paketis Rirebulebas Tu gaviTvaliswinebT), gacilebiT meti eZleva, vidre mimReb ojaxebs. am nabijiT uzrunvelvyaviT bavSvebis TavianT ojaxebSi dabruneba, rac nebismier Tanxaze Rirebulia Cveni sazogadoebisTvis.
– ra Sedis zemoT xsenebul socialur paketebSi?
– mogexsenebaT, reintegraciis SemTxvevaSi xdeba bavSvis biologiur ojaxTan xelaxla dakontaqteba da SeTavseba. Zalian mniSvnelovania, rom erTxel mitovebuli patara isev mitovebis riskis qveS ar aRmoCndes. aqedan gamomdinare, konkretuli ojaxis Sefasebisas aucilebelia misi saWiroebebis gamokveTa. yvela SemTxveva, rogorc ukve aRvniSne, individualuria da maTi ganzogadeba SeuZlebelia. magaliTad: reabilitaciis procesi, dRis centris ufaso momsaxureba rogorc SSm pirTaTvis, ise janmrTeli bavSvebisaTvis an gadaudebeli krizisuli centris Tu adreuli ganviTarebis programebSi CarTva. Cven am procesSi monawileobisTvis xSirad viwvevT arasamTavrobo seqtorsac, romelsac SeuZlia remonti Cautaros Tu tansacmliT da kvebis produqtebiT moamaragos es ojaxebi. Tumca, amas saxelmwifoc akeTebs. mokled rom CamovyalibdeT, getyviT, rom Cveni samsaxuri yovelmxriv cdilobs pirvel rigSi daayenos bavSvi da misces mas Sansi, gaizardos biologiuri mSoblebis, naTesavebis mosiyvarule garemoSi.
– TiTqos igive garemoSi izrdebian boSaTa bavSvebic, Tumca saboloo jamSi, quCis, maTxovrobis da saeWvo janmrTelobis meti aRaraferi rCebaT. rogor unda vuSveloT patarebs, romlebsac mSoblebma adgili trotuarze miuCines da Semosavlis wyarod gaixades. vici, rom es Tema naklebad gexebaT, magram Tqveni damokidebuleba da pozicia mainteresebs am sakiTxze.
– saagento axorcielebs miusafari bavSvebis qveprogramas, romelic quCaSi mcxovreb bavSvebTan muSaobs. rac Seexeba kanonebs, isjeba maTxovrobac, magram am seqtorSi gacilebiT met problemebs vawydebiT swored maSin, roca mis mogvarebas civiluri formebiT vcdilobT. am bavSvebs hyavT mSoblebi, romlebic Zalian uyvarT da am kavSirebis, mijaWvulobis garRvevas uaRresad mZime situaciamde mivyavarT. socialuri muSakebi gaZlierebulad muSaoben msgavs ojaxebTan. Tu mSoblebi mogvyvebian, xom kargi, Tu arada, vayenebT mSoblis uflebebis CamorTmevis sakiTxs. mivmarTavT sasamarTlos da is iRebs saboloo gadawyvetilebas.
– davubrundeT rigSi myof mSvileblebs, ra prioritetiT arCevT maT, Tuki gasaSvilebeli bavSvi gamoCnda?
– rodesac mSvileblobis kandidati registrirdeba, is wers moTxovnebs, Tu rogori bavSvi surs – gaTvaliswinebulia sqesi, asaki da a.S. am moTxovnebis mixedviT xdeba rigiTobiT SeTavazeba. rac Seexeba kanoniT upiratesobas, arsebobs CamonaTvali, Tu vin sargeblobs am uflebiT. aq xazgasma keTdeba naTesaobasa da geris poziciebze. cxadia, naTesaoba dokumenturad unda dadasturdes. aseve, prioriteti eniWebaT mimReb mSoblebs, romlebic momsaxurebas uwevdnen am bavSvs gaSvilebamde anu sanam mieniWa mas gasaSvilebelis statusi. mokled, sami ZiriTadi prioritetia: geris, naTesavis Tu mindobiT aRzrdilis Svileba. naTesaobaSic ikveTeba pirveli, meore da a. S. rigis naTesavi. SeTavazebis procesi upiratesi uflebiT mosargeble adamianebisTvis rigiTobis mixedviT iwyeba.
– SSm pirebi aravis uSvilebia saqarTTveloSi?
– sxvaTa Soris, swored mimRebma mSoblebma iSviles SezRudli SesaZleblobis bavSvi, romelic manamde maTTan izrdeboda. rodesac misi ucxoeTSi gaSvilebis sakiTxi dadga, Tavad daitoves. Tu sxva mSoblebic mibaZaven maT, Zalian kargi iqneba. aseT bavSvebs gansakuTrebulad sWirdebaT ojaxuri garemo da mSoblebis mzrunveloba.
– ucxoeTSi Svildebian Cveni bavSvebi?
– 2010 wlidan 2018 wlamde 30 unarSezRuduli bavSvi gavaSvileT. rodesac ucxoeTis moqalaqeebi SeTavsebis periods warmatebiT gaivlian, Semdeg vutovebT, ra Tqma unda kontrolis qveS. iqidan periodulad gvigzavnian fotoebs da angariSebs bavSvis janmrTelobis mdgomareobis Sesaxeb. minda giTxraT, rom iqaur klinikebSi bevrma SSm bavSvma gaiumjobesa janmrTeloba da winsvlac aqvs ganviTarebis mxriv. swored amitom ver vambobT ucxoeTSi gaSvilebaze uars, Tuki aseTi varianti gamoCnda.
– ra SemTxvevaSi ver iSvilebs msurveli bavSvs?
– Tuki nasamarTlevia mZime danaSaulisTvis, CamorTmeuli aqvs mSoblis (meurvis) ufleba, Tavis droze arasaTanadod moeqca pataras an gaaCnia janmrTelobis iseTi problema, rac xels SeuSlis bavSvis aRzrdaSi.
– bavSvebiT vaWrobis kuTxiT axali sqemaa SemuSavebuli anu mamobas idgens mamakaci, Semdeg biologiuri deda ambobs Svilze uars da gadascems `mamis~ ojaxs. darwmunebuli var, Tqvenc iciT amis Sesaxeb.
– aq saubaria geris Svilad ayvanaze, romelsac, rogorc giTxariT, prioriteti eniWeba kanoniT. rogorc TqviT, jer mamobas idgenen, Semdeg deda uars ambobs da cols ahyavs Svilad. vinaidan es procedura riskis Semcvelia, Cven maSinve mivmarTavT Sinagan saqmeTa saministros, raTa gamovricxoT winaswari garigeba da mxolod iqidan dasturis Semdeg viwyebT sasamarTlo procedurebs, romelmac unda miiRos gadawyvetileba Svilobilobis Sesaxeb.
– aseT dros ar avaldebulebs sasamarTlo an igive Sinagan saqmeTa saministro mamas dnm-is sinjis aRebas?
– principSi, aqamde iSviaTad midis saqme, Tumca imis miuxedavad, rom kanoni ar avaldebulebs, eWvi Tu daebadaT an dava warmoiqmna, arc am sinjze gaSvebaa gamoricxuli.
– ra siaxleebia Tqvens saagentoSi?
– axali kanoniT mSvileblebs daevalaT 3-dRiani treningis gavla. es aris gadamzadeba, romelic aucilebelia maTTvis, vinc bavSvis Svilad ayvanas apirebs. marTalia, iyo protesti, magram minda sixaruliT aRvniSno, rom yvela treningi warmatebiT Catarda da Sefasebisas, damswre pirebma dadebiTad moixsenies am gadamzadebis roli maTi cnobierebis SecvlaSi. Sedegebis gaanalizebam cxadyo, rom es treningi unda gaiaros yvela mSvilebelma wyvilma. aq ramdenime mniSvnelovan Temazea saubari, maT Soris, afrTxileben, rom bavSvi ki ar unda Seeguos ojaxs, aramed ojaxi unda moergos bavSvs. iyo msjeloba imazec, unda uTxran Tu ara bavSvs simarTle Tavisi warmomavlobis Sesaxeb. am sakiTxs treningze mTeli Tavi aqvs daTmobili, sadac weria, ra viTarebaSi, ra dros ra agresia mohyveba informaciis dafarvas. mokled, mSoblebi unda iyvnen yovelmxriv mobilizebulebi, rom erTxel mitovebuli bavSvis meored mitovebis riski ar warmoiqmnas. samwuxarod, msgavsi SemTxvevebi iyo da araerTxel.